BraveMurderDay wrote:
Depending on the social context, sometimes I'm treated as a citizen, sometimes as an outlier, sometimes a freak. I guess only each person can decide for themselves. Sometimes it's hard to summarize your relation to the rest of humanity, huh? So many different people react to you in so many different ways.
I agree that it does depend highly on the context; in my case, the more impersonal the situation, and the less time particular people are going to have to be around me: the nicer they tend to be.
But up through college (and beyond) no one ever wanted to go beyond just being casual friends with me; I had no long-term friendships, and certainly no intimate relationships (when I asked girls out: they would always give polite excuses for why they couldn't, which would always turn increasingly
less polite the more times that I asked), and this situation persists to the present day.
I don't see it ever changing.