Callista wrote:
Why the heck would you do that? I mean, the malicious part. Why would you deliberately try to make someone sad? There's enough sadness for you to observe in the world as it is, without creating more. I can see the logic of asking the same question over and over, for the predictability of getting the same answer. But you would have to be a huge brat to deliberately cause someone pain just to see the reaction.
That said, I have done a lot of observation. You don't need to create a situation in order to get data from it, and created situations aren't particularly good for learning about how people behave in naturalistic settings anyway. Better to sit back and observe, rather than try to create controlled experiments.
Ever heard of ODD? I've got that mildly, so I can tell when it triggers. I remember when I used to just go nuts on the forum, get into little flame wars but now I just sit back and enjoy members ripping each other apart. Then get bored and decide I'll leave the forum for awhile. It's like a switch that goes off that makes me think everyone is fair game.
But I'm not always like that. Most times I'm like that is when I'm not on medication or it wears off, or it's an inattentive day...or hyper day. OK so I'm like that a lot but not always and I do know how to pick up on it and stay away from people so it doesn't make people think I'm a b*****d. But it's never been a choice of my own to act that way, so we're not all brats. Some of us just have a personality disorder that has a neurological origin.
Sometimes it's good to see those suffer that have made you suffer. Again, another form of ODD.