40djbrooks wrote:
Yes I get that too as well.
Best thing if people are so negative towards you, then dont waste any more time on them. Do what you enjoy doing and stuff anyone else.
I think it depends on who you are talking to. The sad thing is that it's easy to put mean people into one category. Because they have other similarities, too.
Unless someone is generally mean, I don't experience much of that.
Now that I think about it...
If people insult others quite often in general, they surely will treat me the same way.
I guess the real problem is that people mostly seem to know how to see faults in others quite easily. It's much harder to make other people feel good about themselves. Even if someone does not intend to insult me, they still point at my faults for no real reason. I also love how people keep saying "I only want to help you", while they're only making me feel miserable. Really, if people want to help you they don't need to justify that. Sadly, real help does not work with me anymore because I've absorbed too much negativity throughout my life.
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