Aspergers and how NTs behave around us

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11 May 2012, 3:20 am

As I have said in my previous posts NTs behave in a good way towards me for example my meltdowns they just know it as really dramatic acting on my part.


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11 May 2012, 4:40 am

I've found that once people get to know me, they usually like me and are tolerant of my quirks. The problems that arise, occur before that point.



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11 May 2012, 5:18 am

indeed, most nt's i meet that dont instantly dismiss me for my quircks are generally accepting of them, on the silent agreement that they dont complain too much about my routines and 'weirdness', as long as i try to keep the worst of my symptoms hidden (no complaining about the light/sound levels unless it's truly too much)



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11 May 2012, 1:28 pm

Most NTs pretend to be friendly with me with fake smiles and talk bad behind my back and call me a freak and walk away whenever I have a melt down.


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11 May 2012, 2:07 pm

Some of you have met some cool, tolerant NTs. Wish there were more like that to go 'round. Why is it some places are full of nice NTs while other places are full of haters? How can you change the minds of the NTs living around you, transforming them from haters to nice people?



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11 May 2012, 3:30 pm

All NTs in my family do is keep looking at me to expect a reaction whenever something happens or is said that they know will worry me or upset me. I hate it when they do this.


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11 May 2012, 4:46 pm

Aspergers and how NTs behave around us


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11 May 2012, 4:50 pm

NOT the babies or the children or even the teenagers BUT self-advocates. LMAO

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11 May 2012, 5:04 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
Most NTs pretend to be friendly with me with fake smiles and talk bad behind my back and call me a freak and walk away whenever I have a melt down.


They're probably not treating you any different than they do other NTs. consider the proverbial source. . . .