What would your ideal life be?

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Pretty much that. I'm curious. You may stop reading and simply answer the question or listen to my rambling... :

Pretty much I've had one hell of a rough night (suicide attempt, panic attack, crying etc, not good for me ) and it always cheers me up to imagine what the perfect life for me would be like. So... I'd have lots of pets - rats, two ferrets, maybe a cat, a cornsake. I'd live alone. I wouldn't have a bed, maybe not even a bedroom, just a matress. I'd have a basement that I'd convert into a photographic equiptment & photoshoot room. I'd have an acoustic piano and orchestral harp, and only eat raw foods. I'd collect different chemicals etc and have a room I'd dedicate to that with plain walls and a plain wooden floor, and a 'bioshock themed' area of the house, even if it's just a corner.
I'd work in teaching others about drugs, in some way or other, like maybe a consultant pharmacist. I'd go to hobby groups, like martial arts (I already do aikido) or whatever. I'd volunteer in my spare time, and I'd spend time 'in my head' in a fantasy world I'd create, and I'd spend my time writing.

Any life in which I could be alone a lot so I can spend my time in my thoughts

Surfing on a tropical island with fresh coconuts, fruits and fish.

At night live music and beer.

Employment in a low-stress, high paying, highly technical job, maybe doing virus analysis for an anti-virus company, only having to go into the office on occasion or when I feel like it, having all the time I want for reading, posting on WP, watching TV and having intellectual discussions with my girlfriend, working on my own projects like programming and writing, playing my sports, living in a biggish house on a big block of land in a semi-rural area that's nice and quiet but not too far out of the city, maybe 15-20 minutes. Having minimal need to worry about idiots in the general public.

Having a passive income that was sufficient to pay all my bills. Then I'd use my spare time to learn how to, and ultimately develop software. Or if I were to win a multi-state lottery, I'd travel all around the world. But bottom line, I cannot stand the need to work to pay my bills. I keep thinking that mankind was made for so much more than struggling check to check.

An eternal life of limitless adventure and consistent travel to other places and even other worlds, going beyond the limits of possibility and reality on a regular basis, although still having some time for tranquility.

(Sadly, this not only seems ideal to me, but also necessary for happiness.)

this is an article i wrote on my blog about a perfect world. http://autism-supremacy.webs.com/apps/b ... tic-future

Finally getting my fire agate ring made and live in a town that recives alot of snow in the wintertime, next to the mountains.

I would want to live in a shared home with a group of chess players, but where everyone has their own computer in an isolated area, and they don't talk to each other in person.

Surfman has the right idea...

A collection of islands littered with waves... green grapes and bananas would be in an endless growing season... and the beers are always cold

Being able to learn new things and discover new ideas every day. Having time to have fun, and talk to people who knew interesting things. Being able to help others and change the world to make it better.

Realistically
I want a husband who I really love, have an ordinary job what I enjoy, my husband working too, live together in a cosy cottage or flat, and both save up and book holidays together, visiting wonderful places.

Fantasy
I want to be a confident NT, with loads of friends, don't ever take no s**t from no-one, very popular, never get laughed at, go out to parties, know how to dress up, and know how to socialise with other loud confident NTs.

Probably won't ever happen
I want to walk into the job centre, pretend I'm just going to sign on as normal, they pick me a job what I don't want, then I say, ''I can't do that,'' and the person says, ''why not?'' and I say, ''because I've won the lottery. Ta da!'' And leave, sorting out a new life in a hot country where it never snows, and I will take many beautiful men with me.

The life that I'm living now, because I've grown so much since the September of 2009.

If I could change everything right now, I'd probably go to live in the countryside. Maybe mainly because lots has been going on and I love the countryside. It's so peaceful and beautiful and kind of seperate from everything. I would live in a cosy, fairly large house and also have lots of pets. I would have horses, and cats. I would have some friends living nearby who would accept me completely for who I was, and (if I was older!) maybe, have a job working somewhere such as as the village doctor or with animals.

I would have lots of lovely things in the house and it would just be really peaceful. I would have a really good camera and take lots of photographs, play music, read and write in my spare time.


My ideal place tends to change a lot though, depending on what's going on, and how I'm feeling! I had a dream once that I would love to go and live in Canada and have a night shift as a paramedic. In another fantasy I was part of a rock band and we toured the world

Since I'm only a teenager, maybe my ideal life should be of me as a teenager. Okay, I would still live in the countryside in a large house. I would have a large, relaxing room and be able to do a lot of things. I'd go to a fairly small school where I was generally accepted and where things were fairly relaxed.

It's a hard question, in a way, because there are so many different levels of an ideal life.

Maybe I'd love to, only slightly more realisticly, have worked through some problems and learned new skills by adulthood. I would love to work in the medical/healthcare area and play music/write in spare time. I would have some friends but not a huge group of them.

I'm sorry that you're struggling at the moment and so many bad things are going on April was a bit like that for me. Remember that you can get through this and not everything in our ideal lifes is really a fantasy- maybe not all of it, but some of it can come true. You can talk to me if you ever want to.

I wanna live life and never be cruel.
I wanna live life and be good to you.

And I wanna fly and never come down.
And live my life and have friends around.

We never change, do we? no, no
We never learn, do we?

So I wanna live in a wooden house.

A reliable income. A girlfriend who didn't get bored of me,