Question in Stack Exchange that gets me in trouble
I asked why would anyone want to use paid databases like oracle or mysql
What happen is people are angry. They think I am being argumentative.
So I change the question to
What are the edges of typical or specific paid databases like oracle or mysql.
Somehow I feel that the second question feels more right, though I can't figure out how.
My question is:
1. What's wrong with argumentative question?
2. Why it drives people mad?
3. The 2 questions are logically equivalent. Of course the reason why people want to do something is due to edges with that thing as opposed to do it the other way. Why neurotypical people react so differently on things that's obviously logically equivalent?
4. Why do they think I have made up my mind and just want to argue? Who the hell are they thinking that they can know my mind?
The question is in http://dba.stackexchange.com/questions/ ... e-of-mysql
Stack Exchange in general has a strong bias against questions that are intended to drive debate, as opposed to questions with concrete answers. If you read the "meta" StackExchange sites, you'll see that it's a regular & recurring theme of contention.
SE's moderators are extremely powerful, but so are (some of) SE's users, and occasionally, you'll get to see a direct conflict between the two groups playing out. I had a small battle with ServerFault's mods once over a question that users thought was interesting, well-researched, and insightful, but one moderator with a *major* stake up his butt didn't like because he thought I was doing something dangerous that end users have no business doing themselves instead of deferring to "qualified service personnel". I spent a week jousting with him. I'd post an update and get a wave of positive karma, then he'd retaliate, wipe most of it away, and ding me another 25 points for refusing to let it go.
In retrospect, it was an epic battle between two self-righteous aspies... one blatantly INTP (me), and one rigidly INTJ (him). In the end, he got two other mods to join him and banish my question to limbo -- not deleted, and appearing in highly-relevant search results, but not allowed to appear in the list of "active" or "popular" questions on the main page. I was pissed, partly because the question was never really answered (my update posts were just documenting my ongoing research for the benefit of others, which was the reason why other users were rewarding me with bonus points and good karma), but ultimately I had to recognize that I was outgunned & he won that battle. Someday, if I manage to find the solution, I WILL post it in my question thread, then sit back with a bowl of popcorn and watch the artillery flying.
For what it's worth, some StackExchange sites are more rigid than others. ServerFault, in particular, is lorded over by profoundly anal-retentive INTJs who freak out at the slightest hint of subverting adminstrative authority or voiding manufacturers' warranties. The mods on that particular site are pretty much determined to live up to the stereotyped definition of "BOFH". At the other extreme is the "Electrical Engineering" site, where the INTPs are clearly in charge. They'll still smack down senseless AVR-vs-PIC battles, and there's a razor-fine line they'll tolerate in arguments about "Arduino(IDE/sketches)-vs-WinAVR", but there's a lot more tolerance for questions of a more debate-driven nature simply because that's how EEs *are*.
StackOverflow falls somewhere in between the two extremes. It frowns upon open-ended questions that can't be answered in concrete terms and given concise answers, but its mods rarely pontificate or get into ideological battles unless you're suggesting something that's outright illegal & could get SO into trouble.
Generally speaking, it's not a good idea to stir the "free-vs-proprietary" pot at StackOverflow. You can ask for free solutions because you don't want to (or can't) spend money, but insinuating that the use of free software is morally superior is just asking for trouble. Questions like "Why did Google stupidly pollute the Android package namespace with a degenerate, partial implementation of Bouncycastle" will get punished. Questions like "How can I build an Android app that uses something from the "real" Bouncycastle library that isn't supported by the partial crippled subset included with the Android API" will get 10 pages of answers and tutorials.
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Asking those sorts of questions just encourages some extremely long bitter discussion over which is the better database. They are quite distracting on a Q&A forum and there is no "right" answer. You could also be rightly accused of trolling.
To answer your original question, the correct DBMS to use is the one that works with your application. If you need to use XYZ application and that works best with Oracle, then you use Oracle. If ABC application works well with MySQL you use MySQL. IT people should rarely be dictating to a business what applications they use, so these choices are often predetermined. I use a mix of SQL Server, MySQL, Ingres, Oracle, Postgres and Cache at work.
And so it starts...
Jason.
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