Why are all of you so defeatist?

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You say you have no rights,being treated like 2nd class citizens.Yes,that's true but hwy accept this unfairness instead of fighting it?Why the others(Nt's)to live generally happy lives with friends and relationships while you accept to suffer?Also why you feel inferior in a shallow way?Isn't more appropriate Nt's to suffer too if you get to the point of hating your life so much?Won't you feel more fair?I think some people accept what i say,i think i have seen it in other posts.Even though i know i am a fighter in life,i got through so much and i am still alive and proud that i am not a defeatist,like Job.Okay many times i feel happy because some people,many treat me nice or get pleasure from my interests but i got through many things.Also there is hell in afterlife and who wants to spend a life forever in hell?Trust me hell is no fun place and condition and people who committed suicide know this now.

They like to wallow in their troubles. Blah blah, poor me, life's so unfair, and all of that.

At least the younger ones anyway. I blame their parents for putting the dis in disability for them.

My parents knew I had AS but they saw my unique potential and focused on that, rather than my weaknesses.

dear mister 91 posts(jonnyjohn)
every group has it's dower people, look around here there are many positive threads.
if you only see negitive ones, it is what ur looking for.

When you come to a web community like this one, you've got to look at the positives and past the negatives. There are many more positive posts on WP than there negative ones.

JohnyJohn, I don't think that everyone here is defeatist, and those that are have probably endured more than you can imagine.

Suicidal thoughts and feelings are things that happen to people. Nobody decides to have those feelings. Just like you, I think that everybody who has ever been suicidal never imagined that it could happen to them. I certainly didn't.

If you've never felt suicidal, I don't think you should waste your time thinking about how you would react if you felt suicidal. You couldn't possibly predict how you would react.

If you want to know more about suicide, the Samaritans have a lot of good information:
http://www.samaritans.org/your_emotional_health/about_suicide/myths_about_suicide.aspx

That's what i say.Nobody likes suicide.People only suicide because they feel something bad happened.If not they would be happy living persons.Ain't that right?So my logic is if someone want's to suicide,which suicide is unfair because of the circumstances since generally life is good and a gift and most people don't suicide,it would be fairer to kill the others who harmed you or the unfair society in which someone could be a functional respected member if he did not have AS.So essentially you are saying that those who suicide have no right to live because of morons and cruel persons.So it is a defeat i don't know if you understand whta i mean,like Biggie said.

Would rightly accuse you of being a _____, but that's not allowed here.