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I realize that this is totally normal for a lot of NTs and only seems overwhelming to me because I am more sensitive. But I look down on people who treat other people as their only/biggest reason to live. I always rolled my eyes at people who say stuff like "my family is the most important thing in my life" or "the only thing that matters is love". No, dear NT, love is not the most important thing in life. If it was, there wouldn't be war or crime. Our lives evolve around so much more than love: hate, greed, ambition... another reason why I'm not interested in bands that only release love songs..
Actually, you refer to love as being the element that "could" possible cancel out these negative things. You are half right. Yes if love was the answer and sought out as such, you might get peace on earth.
But half right because love is a two edged sword and you have overlooked that wars, hate, greed, and all that other stuff stems from a lack of love.
To be more precise, it's the lack of love and those who respond poorly to the lack of love.
But we also have to rule out the truly sick people for whom love is no answer, and not even on their radar. They love corruption of flesh and earth, and deception too. They might love, or not, but with them, it don't matter.
Those people make much progress in screwing up the world because of all those NTs being "social" all the time and not noting much else.