Not been on for a while, and i have a question

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Some social problems have started to occur. It seems that no-one would like to talk to me, other than my cousins and occasionally their friends. I only have one friend, and sometimes he has better people to hang out with. I am starting to feel a bit lonely, as only a small amount of people talk to me. Should I make the first move? Suggestions will be appreciated. Also, how do I approach people?

I have a few tricks for making friends.

1) Try to talk to someone else who is also alone, and ask them what they like and their favourate TV program is


2) Find people who are into the same hobbies / interests as you. Join a club or group of some kind. Book club, running club, whater you like

Thanks, i'll try that when I can. I sometimes see people on their own

I will agree with rincemeister on this one, purley because approaching more than one person can be a little intimidating. Plus you have more chance of getting to know one person (whther they are good or bad) and they are more likely to become a good friend to you than a group of people. You can feel just as lonely in a big group of people as on your own, so keep a small group of friends as they tend to be truer.

I just tend to stay to myself honestly. Don't see why anyone would want to be friends with an NT.