I am in the queue for diagnosis at the minute. I too am as convinced as I can be that I am on the spectrum but think I need to have that professional opinion to back it up. As I wait to be assessed I am worrying that, while I struggle with a lot in relation to AS, the fact I am married with a full time job etc, I might not be seen as impaired enough to meet the criteria. I may well be over thinking things or worrying for no reason but I think being refused a diagnosis would feel almost like being told that I was making my problems up or something. It's kind of hard to explain but the sooner I get assessed the better.
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AQ46, EQ9, FQ20, SQ50
RAADS-R: 181 (Language: 9, Social: 97, Sensory/Motor: 37, Interests: 36)
Aspie Quiz: AS129, NT80
Alexithymia: 137