Diagnosed with PDD-NOS with a cognitive profile most similar to Asperger Syndrome, but a few things don't seem to fit. For one thing, my problems seem to be more visual than fundamental. For example, everyone who knows me says I am NT over the phone. I also have a normal-great ability to infer nonliteral use of language, particularly in writing & i get more jokes than most with ASD.
I also think I have relatively good social awareness but relatively poor social performance and worse anxiety even than some aspies. I am very shy, avoidant, and schizoid. My physician diagnosed me with ASD due to my severe social problems, cognitive profile, and a lifetime of avoidant tendencies.
When I was diagnosed with PDD-NOS, it's very hard to overstate the extent of my NVLD. It was very, very bad. I even bombed the block test, which my physician said most people with AS/ASD ace but got over the 90th percentile on the "comprehension" test, which is supposed to pose difficulties for aspies due to its reliance on nuance and nonliteral meanings of words. I think most aspies are better than me at many cognitive tasks. I am just "slow" and have super slow speech and delayed reactions to anything visual. (but not audio). This has not been the case with most aspies I have met. I also don't have a huge issue with being in a loud bar (some NT's have more trouble).
I have never had stereotyped behavior (rocking, hand flapping, etc.). I have/have had some intense interests, but my physician said they were not intense enough to make me AS.
I also suffered a severe concussion at age 2 and severe allergies to everything starting shortly afterwards. Could I just have right brain damage that makes me like ASD but actually not?