Wandering_Stranger wrote:
So, it's going to exclude people like me who can't deal with certain noises and people walking around.
Unfortunately, yes. It's impossible to accommodate for everyone in one format, so the only solution is multiple formats available for people. For you, it seems like you'd be looking for a quiet audience and a distraction-free environment, which can be found in many places, especially if you like live performances of plays, classical and some instrumental music, operas, and musicals. The audiences for those are often very well-behaved. Similarly, going to the movies during times when teenagers and children are not awake, or in "off hours", is likely to get you a quieter, less chaotic environment; or you could watch a movie with friends at home.
Hope you find something that works for you!