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04 Jan 2013, 11:31 am

I have been trying to help my daughter with anxiety attacks.

personally, I take vitamin D

I used to smoke...but don't want her to do that, but it worked the best for me.

You can't always avoid uncomfortable situations.[b]



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04 Jan 2013, 12:19 pm

Bourbon in a glass has always worked for me, although I wouldn’t recommend it to your daughter. Adults have all kind of ways to deal with anxiety but kids seem very limited in their options.


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04 Jan 2013, 1:09 pm

Mantras work for me. When I'm in an anxious situation I repeat mantras silently to myself. They don't have to be religious ones, just whatever works for her, maybe an affirmation or something. Perhaps a few words that are a comforting reminder that she is capable of handling this temporary situation. Or something that takes her mind off it completely.

Regular meditation can also help.



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04 Jan 2013, 1:26 pm

Meditation or walk 10km a day
Diet no sugar no caffeine no meds
Hot baths, massage

Avoid negative literature and ignorant remarks surrounding ASD's
Many people both autistics and NT's have absorbed and repeated harmful ideas

Visit a naturopath or herbalist- Valerian camomile kavakava cannabis
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04 Jan 2013, 2:20 pm

hyksos55 wrote:
Adults have all kind of ways to deal with anxiety but kids seem very limited in their options.



I stand corrected. Bravo on the wonderful ideas.


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04 Jan 2013, 3:32 pm

I smoke weed and cigarettes.



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04 Jan 2013, 5:22 pm

I second the hot baths & massages.

Also try Mindfullness-Based Stress Reduction...which is like meditation but without any religious aspects. I use the techniques as often as possible and personally it helps my stress...so it's definitely something to experiment with. It requires commitment and patience though...even if it's hard at first, it's worth pursuing.

Yoga is also helpful with helping to cultivate a sense of calm and focus.


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This misdiagnosis caused me significant stress, which lessened upon finding out the truth about myself from my current and past long-term therapists - that I am an anxious and highly sensitive person but do not have an autism spectrum disorder.

My diagnoses - social anxiety disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder.

I’m no longer involved with the ASD world.


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04 Jan 2013, 5:36 pm

I don't represent this website and have absolutely nothing to do with them but I've found the info at http://www.selftherapy.org/ pretty helpful. Access to the most useful stuff is completely free and if you're unwilling to listen through all of the tracks (most are short, other's are less short but still not terrifically long) I'd recommended starting from track 6, where most of the technique is taught. I've forwarded this site to another friend of mine who isn't on the spectrum but suffers from panic attacks and anxiety as well, and she's really taken the technique to heart. I'm sure that most of us who've looked for solutions to anxiety have ran into this type of technique before, so it's nothing super hip or crazy but I really enjoyed how the speaker presented it.


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04 Jan 2013, 5:52 pm

5-HTP really helps me with anxiety. It's supposed to raise your serotonin levels. Works for me.



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04 Jan 2013, 7:04 pm

Smoking pot helps. So do anti-depressants.

Listening to music helps "kick out" the constant music in my head, and this has certainly turned into a coping mechanism for stress.


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04 Jan 2013, 10:36 pm

- I don't eat sugar or flour anymore, and since I stopped I've been much calmer as well as less prone to depression.
- Hot bath & a good book.
- Slow, repetitive instrumental music.
- Wrapping myself tightly in a blanket.
- Caffeine, oddly enough - in moderation.
- Walking in a peaceful environment or swimming.



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04 Jan 2013, 11:53 pm

Nonperson wrote:
- Slow, repetitive instrumental music.

Oh yes! I bought myself an acoustic guitar a few years ago. I don't play well at all when it comes to music, have learned a little. But I find sometimes that just playing sounds on it softly and slowly, not really songs but sounds, can be so soothing.


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04 Jan 2013, 11:57 pm

Long walks, pacing, and sleep typically help with me, as do distractions (playing a computer game, for example). Sometimes, though, a meltdown or anxiety attack are the only things that get it out of my system, unfortunately.



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04 Jan 2013, 11:58 pm

Dark room, head phones plus some progressive instrumental Deadmau5.

"Strobe" is simply amazing. A little binaural.



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05 Jan 2013, 1:39 am

A few more thoughts:

I find it relaxing to sit outside in a calming natural setting, under a tree or where I can watch birds or see flowers growing.

Watching the sky, no matter the weather, can be calming.

A body of water works too. I used to work near the ocean and drove or walked out to sit by the water many a lunch break on a hectic day. A child doesn't have that option, but a small water fountain could be a great substitute. There are small tabletop ones you can get for indoors - or make one as a craft project.

Poetry is a favorite sleep aid for me. I like Mary Oliver's nature poems. Haiku can be soothing too.

I also keep a collection of photos and paintings as my wallpaper and screensavers that I find soothing, on my computer.


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05 Jan 2013, 2:18 am

Lorazepam is the only thing that has helped me with a full blown panic attack, otherwise I had just waited them out, before I started taking it.