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29 Dec 2006, 7:19 pm

Aspie men, do you ever get unwanted sexual/romantic attention from attractive women?
I suppose this is a question for straight guys.

Seems to me I get unwanted non-attention from attractive women.



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29 Dec 2006, 7:36 pm

I get unwanted attention from females every once in a while but never from anyone I would be interested in.



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29 Dec 2006, 7:56 pm

From women? Yes. From attractive women? No.



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29 Dec 2006, 7:59 pm

there is no such thing for me



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29 Dec 2006, 8:11 pm

I never get unwanted attention from women.

Maybe that's because I present myself in a way that doesn't exactly scream "I am a really great catch - please throw yourself at me", I dunno...


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29 Dec 2006, 8:15 pm

A bit of attention would be nice, I'm not denying that. Maybe when I lose some of the lard and get a bit of confidence running next year more will come to me. If it doesn't, they can piss off. :)



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29 Dec 2006, 8:42 pm

jonathandoors wrote:
Aspie men, do you ever get unwanted sexual/romantic attention from attractive women?
I suppose this is a question for straight guys.

Seems to me I get unwanted non-attention from attractive women.



" Unwanted? " Well since I want to be with a partner and the only way to do it is Courtship can't throw some not and other's away....

just got to show your interested / not interested...

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29 Dec 2006, 8:48 pm

I WISH!! !! I have a total negative attraction to women. For some reason they avoid me at all costs even before I have an opportunity to present myself.



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29 Dec 2006, 8:49 pm

I have no idea, I never know what kind of attention is being given to me because I'm too anxious.



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29 Dec 2006, 9:45 pm

I really wish I did. But normally women ignore me completely unless I make a big effort to go and talk to them.



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29 Dec 2006, 10:42 pm

I'd like some wanted attraction from women.



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29 Dec 2006, 11:11 pm

Unwanted romantic attention from women? You gotta be kidding me! There is so such thing, as far as I'm concerned. I'm thankful for any attention I get from a woman. "Unwanted attention from women" is something a player (or playa) would say.



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29 Dec 2006, 11:18 pm

Yup. I get attention like that at times. But I come across as aloof, and a bit of a bad boy.



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29 Dec 2006, 11:51 pm

No. No, I can't say that I do.

Though I have been in circumstances where I looked back and realised that a girl was flirting with me and I was totally oblivious.

Tip for married guys: If you are talking about this sort of experience with your wife, don't say that you could have kicked yourself. They take it wrong.


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30 Dec 2006, 12:41 am

jonathandoors wrote:
I get unwanted non-attention from attractive women.

:o

"Aspie men, do you ever get unwanted sexual/romantic attention from attractive women?"

Not for a long time now.


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30 Dec 2006, 12:43 am

I have a motorcycle, so that makes me an outlaw biker. It happens to be a BMW motorcycle so if I can't beat you up I can sue ya.

Oh yeah, the chicks just love outlaw bikers. I have to spray chick-repelant everywhere I go just to get anything done.

And then I woke up.

(I do have a motorcycle tho.)