pluto wrote:
As for the subject of imagination,I'm not sure about the play aspect in children but as far as adults go,there is more of an issue surrounding the ability to 'imagine' what is likely to happen next IRL,especially in imagining how a relationship might develop,rather than the ability to think creatively or fantasize. When I was young I sometimes used to live in a
fantasy world !
That makes sense.
I have no problem with metaphor. Actually thinking in comparisons, like conjuring up vivid visual imagery that symbolizes my feelings rather than describing them outright, may be easiest of all. For example, images of trying to walk underwater, on the bottom of the sea, or of becoming a breathing stone statue say more to me than the words "I feel depressed", which sound like a flat label of sorts. It's probably due to my thinking being visual more than anything, but I'm sure there may be many people with predominantly verbal thinking who are the same way.
I obviously do miss out on many subtleties of face-to-face interaction - the context of words, the shades of meaning that may be conveyed by gestures and facial expressions, and the like. I may misunderstand what I'm told and take it either more literally or just not the way it was intended at all. I think, to an extent, I'm mindblind. I mean, everybody is probably mindblind to a certain degree, but I seem to have greater trouble understanding people who are not like me than is usual.
All these things seem to be something quite different from understanding or not understanding literary metaphor, or expressing your thoughts and feelings in an indirect way through imagery (and relating to imagery of this kind, accordingly).
As for imagination - I also used to live in a dream world as a child, and later too, and I have a need to try and be creative. But I do have difficulties coming up with ideas spontaneously, and imagining how a relationship could go or what to say/do in a certain social context could also present a problem.