johnle wrote:
Is there anyone here that has been diagnosed very late and surprised?
I was diagnosed at age 50, after I stumbled upon this “thing” called Asperger’s.
johnle wrote:
I was surprised by my high score and borderline autistic because I am a full functioning and productive person but looking back now I understand why my score is high.
I just took the AQ again (just for fun). I scored 42. Before learning about Asperger’s, I never thought of myself as “extreme”. I just considered myself mostly “normal” and others being a bit “off” (e.g. illogical, governed by emotion, etc.).
johnle wrote:
I was very shy when I was younger but attending toastmasters for one year helped tremendously.
I am not certain if I am shy or not. I typically don’t talk to others, unless I have something meaningful/useful to say. Or they might be able to answer a question I have. So, at work, I am never “shy”. But, outside of work I am typically quiet.
I also joined toastmasters. I don’t mind speaking in front of people about topics I am familiar with (e.g. I don’t mind doing work-based presentations).
johnle wrote:
My older brother is an extrovert with many friends so this is not all genetic.
My older brother is an extrovert as well. Before learning about Asperger’s, I never quite understood how he could have so many friends. It used to make me sad that I was unable to make new friends. I suppose now, it doesn’t really bother me. I am over that.