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franknfurter
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10 Feb 2013, 2:41 pm

im really angry at the snow, is it going to snow or isnt it, how much will it snow if at all, honestly cant handle the changing of the snow forecast. it makes my whole mental state go out of control. :(



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10 Feb 2013, 3:18 pm

I used to be the same with rain or surf forecasts. Often they are wrong and ruin my plans. I found that I eventually had to realise that I could not control or even foretell the weather the forecasts were merely a guide. Then I had to come up with a contingency plan for different weather outcomes based on the activities I wanted to do. Lastly I had to accept that not everything will go to plan and to try to be flexible. I think that one is the hardest letting go of ones expectations and desires can be so difficult. Good luck.


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10 Feb 2013, 3:21 pm

Sharkgirl wrote:
I used to be the same with rain or surf forecasts. Often they are wrong and ruin my plans. I found that I eventually had to realise that I could not control or even foretell the weather the forecasts were merely a guide. Then I had to come up with a contingency plan for different weather outcomes based on the activities I wanted to do. Lastly I had to accept that not everything will go to plan and to try to be flexible. I think that one is the hardest letting go of ones expectations and desires can be so difficult. Good luck.



thanks, it is difficult, snow is one of my obsessions, i just feel so emotionally out of control, i get up about 3 times in the night to check the snow, i love snow but it does not do much for my mental state. :?