Okay i had my NT gf take the Aspie quiz and she scored a whopper of 42 out of 200.
She does have sensory issues a tad, she doesn't really show emotion (which is tough for me)
yet since we've been together 5 years can my Autisitic traits pass to her? Such as lack of socialization and more isolation?
She doesn't care to make friends or talk to people aside from me.
She has assimilated since a young age well.
She can be social whether or not she truly wants to and can smalltalk if she has to.
No brain injuries she has had.
She has assimilated since a young age to blend in so that you don't feel different.
In contrast i am how i am i don't change or attempt to blend its futile i hate when people judge others, if they judge me then they aren't worth it.
However my gf may not be so NT she gets nervous if someone where to bring attention to her (which is why she got mad at me for running out the dr's office slamming a door since i had a mini meltdown) as it brought her negative attention so thus, her assimilation is very important to her she learned at a young age and mastered it.
I realize that to other people i appear different, i cannot hide it. I think it stems from a young age in elementary school when others knew i was different, i realized i was different (wasn't sure how yet knew) and i accepted it.
Did i read the quiz wrong? For her graph she leans into the NT half with the graph yet i would like a confirmation i'm confused how she scored