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sharkattack
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28 Mar 2013, 7:58 pm

I fully understand sarcasm and to say we do not is a bad myth.

I may find it hard at times to tell if somebody is being sarcastic or being serious.

I have found the people on this board to be a nice decent helpful bunch of people that are honest much like myself.

When a troll comes on I can spot them a mile away let us not feed them.

And fair play to the Wrong Planet moderation they acted fast. :)



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28 Mar 2013, 8:10 pm

Exactly. As my moniker reads, I am "Sgt. Sarcasm." I never understood how the "experts" can make such a bold claim about an entire group of individuals. I'm certain there are some NTs who cannot understand sarcasm (I've met more than a few myself).



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28 Mar 2013, 8:14 pm

I use sarcasm but often find it can confuse people unless I specify that I am using sarcasm at the time (especially online so I usually use [sarcasm][/sarcasm] brackets to clarify unless it is very obvious.

I can sometimes misread sarcasm though, although again, more so online than off of it.

I can be a bit ditzy sometimes!

I can miss the troll factor on occasion, especially if think they just want to discuss the paranormal/parapsychology or another area of interest to myself. I don't always realise they are not genuinely interested.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:21 pm

I got excited at one point as I thought there was going to be a parapsychological discussion and I have been meaning to update my reading on recent parapsychological theory.

Damn.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:23 pm

bumble wrote:
I got excited at one point as I thought there was going to be a parapsychological discussion and I have been meaning to update my reading on recent parapsychological theory.

Damn.


Well your lucky you did not get involved with that joker.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:24 pm

I often misunderstand sarcasm since I am unable to tell if the person is being serious or not. I am fully capable of being sarcastic, but must know someone well to be comfortable being sarcastic to them.


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28 Mar 2013, 8:24 pm

When I was a child, I didn't understand sarcasm at all. I often have to know the person or his beliefs before I can determine if he is using sarcasm. At first a thought that Stephen Colbert was being serious and I thought he was just some idiot.

Sometimes people don't realise when I'm being sarcastic.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:25 pm

Well, I can definitely say that I have trouble at times trying to recognise sarcasm i.e. whether a person is being serious or not, but not always; it would be wrong to say that I'm"none the wiser" of sarcasm, as I sometimes use it myself. :)


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28 Mar 2013, 8:34 pm

I have used sarcasm for many years. In fact, I learned years ago that many of my sarcastic remarks were, in reality, nothing more than simple statements of the truth that others seemed to be oblivious to.


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28 Mar 2013, 8:36 pm

KnarlyDUDE09 wrote:
Well, I can definitely say that I have trouble at times trying to recognise sarcasm i.e. whether a person is being serious or not, but not always; it would be wrong to say that I'm"none the wiser" of sarcasm, as I sometimes use it myself. :)


Yes you put it better then I could.

The so called experts are nothing of the kind.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:42 pm

sharkattack wrote:
Yes you put it better then I could.

The so called experts are nothing of the kind.
I really think professionals need to start actually listening to us more, when trying to define what AS actually is- after all, we know what our lives are like on a daily basis.


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28 Mar 2013, 8:47 pm

KnarlyDUDE09 wrote:
sharkattack wrote:
Yes you put it better then I could.

The so called experts are nothing of the kind.
I really think professionals need to start actually listening to us more, when trying to define what AS actually is- after all, we know what our lives are like on a daily basis.


100% agree with you on that one.



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28 Mar 2013, 8:56 pm

I don't get sarcasm, and I don't think it's funny, I don't get it on any level.



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28 Mar 2013, 9:11 pm

uwmonkdm wrote:
I don't get sarcasm, and I don't think it's funny, I don't get it on any level.



Just brings me back to one thing I agree with.

When you have met one person with Autism you have met one person with Autism.

We are all individuals Aspergers Autism all hits us in different ways.



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28 Mar 2013, 9:11 pm

As others have said, more or less, I have no problem understanding sarcasm once I recognize it... though I sometimes have trouble figuring out whether someone is being sarcastic or not. I'm the same way with figurative language -- I understand it just fine once I recognize it (I generally take it literally at first, realize it doesn't make much sense that way, then look for figurative interpretations... but it usually only takes a moment to figure it out).

I have no problems using sarcasm myself, though other people don't always notice unless I try to make it obvious (of course it's often more amusing to me if I don't).



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28 Mar 2013, 9:29 pm

I didn't know sarcasm existed until around grade 5 or 6.

Now I can usually recognize a very obviously sarcastic tone of voice but if it isn't obvious enough I have to rely on context. If context fails as well then I'll miss it. It's very rare that I fail to pick up on the context and the tone of voice at the same time but it has happened a few times.