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11 Apr 2013, 5:38 am
11 Apr 2013, 6:16 am
Just because people think they are helping does not always mean they are. Sometimes it is better not to help. It sounds contraintuitive, but trying to help maybe taken the wrong way. I remember many people try to help me when I was a child and when I failed they only got angry. The fact that they were giving me the wrong type of help did not occure to them. Which lead to more problems and they tryed to help me even more. So it was a closed circle. 
11 Apr 2013, 12:28 pm
Highlander852456 wrote:
Just because people think they are helping does not always mean they are. Sometimes it is better not to help. It sounds contraintuitive, but trying to help maybe taken the wrong way. I remember many people try to help me when I was a child and when I failed they only got angry. The fact that they were giving me the wrong type of help did not occure to them. Which lead to more problems and they tryed to help me even more. So it was a closed circle.
ok in my case i never got help.
its just a year ago i made a friend who turned out to be my mentor
and just a year or two ago i did counselling first time it helped me
and reading books also helped me.
I could say that overall i have become much better compared to earlier.
but i have become more wary....because now i keep on thinking that i am different
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