FireoftheStorm wrote:
Sorry, it was just a term I heard. I brought it up as a thing to work towards/have hope in - life may be difficult, but if you can master the difficulty, you'll be better than others who did not have a difficulty.
No need to be sorry. I was just stating my opinion on that phrase.
Ettina wrote:
But people tend to assume having a disability is way worse than it is, and congratulate disabled people for tiny accomplishments ('oh, wow! you opened your own beer!').
Exactly! The big one that drives me nuts is doors! People seem to think that opening and going through doors is a huge challenge for me. They rush in front of me to open the door for the poor dude in a wheelchair. It drives me insane!
It's no harder for me to open the door and go through than it is for them. And it's worse when they ask if I need help and I say no and they apparently go temporarily deaf and "help" anyway. more often than not, they just get in the way!
Sorry for the rant.
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