I have a twin-sister, she's dx'd with bipolar. We don't get along with each other very well. Her way of thinking largely differs from mine. She's outgoing, narcissistic (makes disdainful comments on people), prefers outer value to inner value (wants to live in a detached-house as a minimum and have nice pricey car put under her ass just to show off), thinks she's weak therefore her boyfriend and pretty much everybody else in the family is supposed to support her financially, her favorite characters are typically wise criminals like dr. Hannibal Lecter. When manic, she is simply unbearable. I guess she lacks a proper sense of values. Under medication, she's bearable, but she'll divulge anything despite your explicit telling when in company.
So, shame on me, I'd do anything to keep her under control. And that's relatively new, I was blind so long.
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Another non-English speaking - DX'd at age 38
"Aut viam inveniam aut faciam." (Hannibal) - Latin for "I'll either find a way or make one."