My father has many traits of Aspergers, like "textbook", but he is not diagnosed and I am not sure at all, if he even knows about it.
My autism is more severe than his, as he is able to hold down a job for 45 years now (he is specialized in his area, even did inventions, but has no good contact to co-workers), can drive, has children (but does not care at all).
He archieved a lot I did not.
I do not have a lot of contact to him (2 autists, neither of us is calling or making an appointment, see each other only at christmast and easter, when neurotypical part of family is arranging it/ parents divorced).
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English is not my native language, so I will very likely do mistakes in writing or understanding. My edits are due to corrections of mistakes, which I sometimes recognize just after submitting a text.