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02 Aug 2013, 11:23 am

Is it just me or does anyone else get irritated when people pronounce the word "Autistic" just like the word "Artistic"? I don't know why that irritates me especially since I don't pronounce words correctly 100% of the time. But for some reason it kind of does. Anyone else?

I also don't like when people use bad grammar. I do sometimes so I should not judge others harshly but I don't know why it bothers me. Does that bother anyone else?



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02 Aug 2013, 11:24 am

I've never heard anyone do that.


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02 Aug 2013, 11:25 am

I have never heard someone pronounce it like that.

I hate the way "Aspergers" sounds with most American accents, even though I am aware that I don't pronounce it the way Hans would have.



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02 Aug 2013, 11:25 am

babybird wrote:
I've never heard anyone do that.
Maybe it's a local thing. I hear it all the time.



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02 Aug 2013, 12:01 pm

I realize that because I never talk about autism or Asperger's Syndrome with anyone IRL, I actually almost never hear those words pronounced by anyone.

People mispronounce many words and use bad grammar all the time. So I guess you have to live with it. If anything, you should probably feel superior to them.



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02 Aug 2013, 12:07 pm

jk1 wrote:
I realize that because I never talk about autism or Asperger's Syndrome with anyone IRL, I actually almost never hear those words pronounced by anyone.

People mispronounce many words and use bad grammar all the time. So I guess you have to live with it. If anything, you should probably feel superior to them.
I wouldn't want to feel superior to them because I have my issues too. I just wish I did not get irritated by it. I feel like I am being harsh. I don't want to be that kind of person. I try not to let my irritation show because I don't want to be mean. I just wish I did not have to feel that.



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02 Aug 2013, 12:21 pm

The big question is whether they're mispronouncing the word, or honestly think you're mispronouncing the word "artistic" because they've never seen the different word "autistic."

We've got a manager at work who always mispronounces the word "moot" like "mute". He's the kind of person whose language skills never developed fully, so he tries to compensate by using big words (often incorrectly). It makes me want to shove a dictionary in his face and say "See? It's moot, not mute!".



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02 Aug 2013, 1:41 pm

pi_woman wrote:
The big question is whether they're mispronouncing the word, or honestly think you're mispronouncing the word "artistic" because they've never seen the different word "autistic."

We've got a manager at work who always mispronounces the word "moot" like "mute". He's the kind of person whose language skills never developed fully, so he tries to compensate by using big words (often incorrectly). It makes me want to shove a dictionary in his face and say "See? It's moot, not mute!".

No, I am pretty sure they mean to say Autistic and say Artistic instead. And it is rare that I am the first to bring it up. But I have had people tell me, "my child or relative or friend is Artistic" (meaning autistic), and by the context of what they were saying I knew for sure they weren't talking about art. But I hear it so much that I think it is a local thing. But if they tell me that I then will mention to them I am also. Usually they are surprised to hear it but I just tell them that if they get to know me closely they'll see it! :)

Sometimes I would like to tell people like your manager that they should just stick to the words they know. I know a couple of people who do that and it really makes them look ridiculous. I would rather tell people that I have problems with speech sometimes and even occasionally with comprehension than try to act like I know more than I do and use words that don't make any sense. That's just silly.



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02 Aug 2013, 1:57 pm

Do you, by any chance, live in the southern part of the United States? It seems that the vowels are typically pronounced with a "flatter" sound that can often emulate or emphasize an "r" sound; I have heard the word "werewolf" being pronounced as "warwolf," "Oreo" being pronounced as "Are-re-oh," and, yes, "autistic" being pronounced as "artistic."

They may be entirely unaware of their unusual enunciation and hear the words as "werewolf," "Oreo," and "autistic" inside of their own heads.


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02 Aug 2013, 1:59 pm

My dad pronounces it "Aurrr-tistic".

He's an eejit.



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02 Aug 2013, 2:23 pm

I pronounce it the correct way. Nuff said.


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02 Aug 2013, 3:02 pm

Tequila wrote:
My dad pronounces it "Aurrr-tistic".

He's an eejit.

thats all t'lancs accents furr yehh. :wink:

unknown to them its a bit of a compliment if they call someone whose autistic artistic, theyre clearly thinking the person is a talented individual and an asset to society and not thinking of their disability.


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02 Aug 2013, 3:12 pm

I've never heard that. What I do hear is Assburgers. They sound most unappetizing.



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02 Aug 2013, 5:19 pm

Assburgers? People gotta stop making "South Park" their major source of information.



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02 Aug 2013, 7:03 pm

RandyG wrote:
I've never heard that. What I do hear is Assburgers. They sound most unappetizing.


I pronounce Asperger's how it would've been pronounced (oz-pair-gers). I sound Irish as heck, but I'd rather that than assburgers.



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02 Aug 2013, 11:59 pm

WerewolfPoet wrote:
Do you, by any chance, live in the southern part of the United States? It seems that the vowels are typically pronounced with a "flatter" sound that can often emulate or emphasize an "r" sound; I have heard the word "werewolf" being pronounced as "warwolf," "Oreo" being pronounced as "Are-re-oh," and, yes, "autistic" being pronounced as "artistic."

They may be entirely unaware of their unusual enunciation and hear the words as "werewolf," "Oreo," and "autistic" inside of their own heads.
Yes. Perhaps you are right.