Don't touch my STUFF!

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That must be awful. I'm sorry to hear about this.
I know I would go insane if this were to occur in my house.
You really need to tell her straight that she's not respecting you and it's a huge problem.

If I leave something for a day on a counter it will be gone the next day and no one remembers whether they moved it or not. Same goes for things in my room; I can't be expected to keep track of what other people do with my things when I'm not there.

Oh my gosh, I feel the same way when people touch my things. I hate it. I remember having intense tantrums when I was a kid and my mom would clean my room. I felt so violated and disorganized afterwards. I had everything the way I wanted it, it made sense to me even though maybe it didn't look pretty. I always thought, I don't go into your room and clean it for you so why are you going into mine? When I would talk to her about it she would deny that she cleaned it. What??? How else did it get that way cause I certainly didn't do it!!
People at work have learned to leave my desk alone too. I would come in sometimes and have papers all over it that they dropped off or stuff would be moved. Once a co-worker used my desk lamp and didn't put it back, I flipped out. I felt really bad afterwards but it was really personal and affronting to have my space interfered with.

when ever I use someones stuff and the area is a mess I will clean it up a little then do what I needed to do then put the mess back

My coworkers know I am VERY territorial and hate messes left in my area. I am very OCD like when it comes to where everything is and hate anyone touching my stuff. I'm still not as bad as an ex-friend. He would fly into a rage if you as much as went near his controller, his chair, his room or his car.

I hate it when I can't find something. Even though I live alone I still manage to lose stuff though

I usually end up ranting and yelling to myself about it. I am surprised the neighbours don't complain.