have you ever been bullied? if so what was you worst/ best

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i would say my absolute worst experience was well it's complicated but here's what i can remember there was this group of kids who would say that i and this other girl was beautiful and gorgeous to the point it was almost embarrassing but they were laughing at us behind our backs the other girl new it but i was just confused there were also 3 or 4 kids who said they wanted to have sex with me (2 were girls who said they were bisexual who really made me feel weird but that docent really mater) and it made me feel really uncomfortable and on top of that they were talking s**t about this other girl saying shes the problem and i made fun of her behind her back and to her face when they were arguing just to look cool and because of all the things they said about her being mean. Not only was i brutally tormented and harassed i temporarily lost that girls respect, becoming a bully myself.

Always having to get in trouble for self defense and the best was not going to school for a while so it's like karma for the kids. They all of a sudden envied I didn't have to go to school anymore. They had themselves to blame for it.

Best experience: In high school someone tried to make a really cruel joke at my expense. I came back with a really witty and funny reply, and he was ridiculed for the next few days over it. The two of us actually ended up becoming friends afterwards, I think that the way I responded made him respect me in the end.

Worst experience: Rather not say

I got bullied out my summer job day camp this year by some 19 year old douche, I ended up getting PTSD and I still have it, these days I feel like ripping his face off and biting his neck till blood squirts out in order to satisfy myself

I was chased, then jumped, by some kid. I eventually got him off me by pushing a ballpoint pen into his neck. He then broke a beer bottle near me and the contents spashed on my clothes.

Some kid placed gum on my seat in a class and it got stuck in my pants.

I was made fun of for my hair. It was never combed or cut right.

I was made fun of for my glasses. They were thick like Coke bottles, or so I was told.

I had my boots ripped off from me by some street thug during the winter.

I was pushed off my bike which the kids labeled a truck because it was built from found parts.

All of this and more, and with the addition of what I was already enduring/endured at home as a child, should've made me a serial killer. Now I'm horribly avoidant. I'm not surprised why.

Not really. I guess there was one time when this kid messed with my hair every day for a couple of weeks. A few punches to the face and a vacation from school later and he wouldn't come within three meters of me. I think that counts as the "best" experience.

Too meny negitive experinces to list them all, both verbal and physical with the worst starting in grade 1. I did enjoy the time the little bully tryed to take advantage of my lack of physical abillity and make me literally cry for mercy only to find out I have a really high pain tolarance, no fun for him and actually while weak made me look sort of tuff. After 7-8 years of on and off bullying he never tryed me again physically.

The worst would be two or three years of isolation and taunting by my classmates in primary. Or losing all of my "friends" over something I apparently said. I still don't know what that was.

I don't think there is a best. I've come up with my share of bitchy comebacks but they weren't aimed a bullies, just people making a snarky comment for one reason or another.

Bullied at school, bullied at home as a teen, bullied at work as an adult and bullied online.

i am always being bullied.

Best experience: Having teachers write up some kids who harassed me

Worst Experience: Having a bunch of rumors being spread about me behind my back and not finding out until two years later
Being told to drink bleach
Having more rumors that I knew about being started about me
Not knowing how to defend myself

Best: n/a
Worst: Which one to I pick from? The single worst was the rumor two kids spread that I was gay. That instantly turned 99% of kids against me and the more I tried to reason with people, the worse they got. I also realized I had to fight back when it was too late and it was 4-8 on one. Good luck fighting back then!

I have had some horrendous experiences with bullying - people talking behind my back, called alot of names, I have been pushed off the playground,shoved to the ground, have had my pants pulled down, people thinking stuff about me that isn't true, my husband's friend accusing me of cheating when I was just going to KFC to have lunch and this was before we met and my brother and his friend saw me walking with a guy who I have never had seen before and them thinking it was my boyfriend when it was just a customer going to have lunch. So many examples of me being bullied - I was so happy to leave at the end of year 12 I couldn't bear to do year 13 I just did fun things instead of going to year 13 and I do not regret not doing seventh form

I have been bullied at Otago Polytechnic ( if anyone thinks of going there do NOT go there they treat autistic and people with aspergers really bad there) the disability woman there is very condescending. Every disabled person I know that went there gets ousted out there.

I can't say I have ever been bullied as bad at what some Aspies here have faced. I was more so rejected a lot of times through school, especially at secondary school. The other girls in my class didn't really want me hanging around with them, even if they didn't say it to me, I could still tell, by the way nobody hardly spoke to me. I just felt like the underdog at lot of the time, like I was just existing. I didn't want to just walk around on my own, so I didn't have the choice but to stick with other people, whether they wanted me or not. I just had to learn to ignore the fact that they don't like me, and just feel thankful that I wasn't badly bullied. It was still upsetting for me, though.

I remember there was this girl who had always been in my class from when I was 4 to when I was 16, and although she wasn't overpowering or even that loud or confident, everyone still seemed scared of her, and when she was absent from school, I was more popular. So I could see the pattern that was going on there, but I didn't want to say anything. This girl rejected me so many times, but always made herself look the nice, innocent one. She just absolutely hated me for some reason, even though she knew I had Asperger's. Then when my older brother kept on seeing me on my own at school, he felt upset for me, and thought that this girl was bullying me, so he went up to her one day and had a go at her and told her to be nice to his sister. She then turned into a little crybaby and kept on getting on to me after that, saying how he made her feel frightened and that he spoil her whole summer. I really do wish I had said ''yeah, well, you spoilt my whole school life, so now you have a taste of your own medicine, you selfish unempathetic b***h!'' But I didn't. I just had to be nice, and live in guilt for this b***h - even though she had basically been emotionally hurting me for years.

And then they say NTs are supposed to have empathy? NTs who bully us seem to lack it, because they can only feel how you felt when it backfires.

The time that sticks in my mind for some reason was caused by a separate bullying incident.

It was started in recess in 7th grade when I got a real pounding on the school yard at recess one day. I wouldn't let them beat me and managed to grab one kid around the legs while the other 2 kids were still hitting/kicking me, so I bit the leg I was grabbing. And, of course, that's when a teacher showed up to break it up. All I remember is the teacher hollering and prying me off the other kid's legs. And since it was their word (+ the bite mark) against mine, I wound up going to a psychologist with my Mom.

The psychologist decided he needed to see me a few more times so my Mom showed me how to board the city bus and take it into downtown and walk to the psychologist's office. The first time I go downtown I'm near the psychologist's office when I'm spotted by a small bunch of rough street kids hanging out down there, and they chase me into the office, and they're gone when I come out. The next week I get to the office OK, but they spot me coming out and I just get on the oncoming bus on-the-run and the bus driver slams the door in their face as they promise death and worse the next time they see me.

I didn't bother telling my Mom anything except I didn't want to go downtown any more, and the downtown trips ended. This was 1955 and I wasn't diagnosed with anything other than having no respect for any male authority. I guess this incident sticks in my mind because of how well it turned out; is that sick?

denny

worst experience= it was partly my fault, I picked all my eyebrows out over the summer once and had no eyebrows when I got back into school, mortifying, I can laugh about it now but the whole year was laughing at me and asking me what had happened, I was called names about it for the rest of my high school life. even some of the teachers laughed, its just so terrible.

The worst I was bullied was being slowly pushed off the playground round-a-bout, clutching and struggling all the way, and then stomped by all the children as they circled around over over me. I finally escaped and ran back into the school to tell my teacher, all dirty and covered in scrapes. She told me not to be a tattle-tale.

Luckily, my mother was alarmed at what had happened when I got home and told her how I got into the condition I was in. That went a long way toward helping me hang onto my sense of the unfairness of it. If she had reinforced that telling an adult about bullying and physical assault is wrong, I might have suffered even more. Even into adulthood.