SocOfAutism wrote:
My husband was diagnosed with Asperger's before it disappeared as a diagnosis. His mom says he pretty much potty trained himself at around 18-20 months and never fell back on it. My little brother has what would have been classified as HFA and was about 5. Now, I was 14 when he was 5, so I remember that. My mom didn't get him a toddler potty or try to potty train him. He probably also potty trained himself.
My son is in the early stages of potty training right now. He's almost 21 months old. A kid is ready to use a potty when they are 1) interested, 2) able to pull pants down and up, 3) knows the feeling of having to "go," 4) can control their muscles to "hold it." That's kind of a lot for a little kid and we all get there at different times.
There is also emotional ready and having the cognitive understanding about it. Sometimes a kid shows all those signs and still aren't ready. I sure did bit I didn't understand I was supposed to go in the potty so I had it all backwards. I can imagine how confusing it must have been for me because I was basically taught to go in my diaper and my mom always changed them and always put them on me and then one day she buys me this chair with a bucket that slides under the seat and she would put me on it butt naked and even having me watch her use the toilet didn't work either because I couldn't make the connection I was supposed to be doing that now. I am sure this also happens with some normal toddlers too which would explain why some of them refuse to toilet train when you try. Sometimes having another baby does the trick.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.