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24 Jan 2014, 10:31 pm

Like I was Punished By NTs, I never punish a NT Kid, Did Any Aspie Parents or Individual Punished a NT?



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24 Jan 2014, 10:37 pm

I disciplined my sister, but I never, ever hit. I tend to understand the needs of children better than their parents. :s



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24 Jan 2014, 10:41 pm

Yes, my dogs. Sometimes my parents.


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24 Jan 2014, 10:42 pm

I punish NT kids that I babysit when they need it. Usually put them in the corner and time out and stuff like that.


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24 Jan 2014, 10:45 pm

Its rare for aspie, or autie, kids to gang up on - and harass/bully/taunt/beat up on a NT kid he way the opposite frequently happens. Aspie kids just dont gang up, are few and far between (so there isnt much of a gang if they did gang up). But aspie adults in a postion of power over others would be niether less nor more likely to punish than NTs in power ( including parents of children). And they wouldnt descriminate one way nor the other toward NTs under their charge. So aspie adults (like judges) whose job is to 'punish' criminals do frequently punish NT criminals.



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24 Jan 2014, 10:50 pm

equestriatola wrote:
Yes, my dogs. Sometimes my parents.
I Punished my parents for doing things that I don't want. and even they were yelling at me, which it makes me going to hit them as a Punishment, I Abused my Mother as a Punishment for forcing me to go to places with them. Which I'm 18 1/2 years old and I declared Independence a year ago. Which it causes me to Punish My Parents more than once. Some NT Parents can hurt your feelings. Which I wanted to rush Independence. But my parents limit me from going into places and getting people to watch me, but I don't want them to watch me, I just want my parents to leave me alone.



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24 Jan 2014, 10:54 pm

Have you learned how to communicate your needs with your parents, Aquais?



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24 Jan 2014, 11:02 pm

I am an autistic parent. I have both autistic and NT kids and grand kids. I never hit any of my kids. There were consequences for actions, but very few negative ones because my kids weren't exactly angels, but pretty darn close. I am one of those ADHHHHHHD autistics and I think my kids were too busy trying to keep up with their moms [and grannys] bouncing, singing or doing cartwheels to
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25 Jan 2014, 12:17 am

I treated my brothers like they were my sons because I copied my mother.


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25 Jan 2014, 12:26 am

Aquais94 wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Yes, my dogs. Sometimes my parents.
I Punished my parents for doing things that I don't want. and even they were yelling at me, which it makes me going to hit them as a Punishment, I Abused my Mother as a Punishment for forcing me to go to places with them. Which I'm 18 1/2 years old and I declared Independence a year ago. Which it causes me to Punish My Parents more than once. Some NT Parents can hurt your feelings. Which I wanted to rush Independence. But my parents limit me from going into places and getting people to watch me, but I don't want them to watch me, I just want my parents to leave me alone.


Physical violence isn't the answer.
You have no right to hit your parents.
Just like they have no right to hit you.
Try communicating instead of being violent with your mother.
You have no right to hit a female.
Did you ever try abusing your father the same way?



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25 Jan 2014, 1:18 am

I got 4 NT kids. I punished them as was appropriate. Although now I think my younger son has AS like me. But still, they got was was appropriate to their personalities and the crime. I've also gotten revenge many times against other adult NT's.

As for the person who said violence isnt the answer, well it is when the right question is asked. But you have to wait until then. We can't just throw in VIOLENCE as the answer to something like "Why do we not flush our barbies down the toilet?" or "Why do we not treat our grown kids like s**t?". Because it is NOT the answer. But, to some questions, it IS the right answer. Such as "b***h, you want me to beat your ass for you?" then yes, there the right answer is full on physical violence.


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25 Jan 2014, 1:48 am

No, I don't believe I have ever punished any NTs before....that's not to say I haven't ever desperately wanted to, though.


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25 Jan 2014, 2:41 am

I don't know if this would be called punishment or not. But back when I was in school. I was always punishing the bullies and the teachers who would hurt me. They where mostly sneaky/get even attacks like urinating in the milk, squirting battery acid(H2SO4) into my enemies locker, etc and the list goes on. So if you can call that an aspie punishing an NT then yes. I have punished a lot of them.



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25 Jan 2014, 1:04 pm

I punished my mum by choosing to be myself and be happy once again in Late 2009. She sure acted like I did. She wanted two Valley Girls with attitude who would live every moment in the present. I need to be the masculine 60s Mod that I am. I'm sorry she felt punished by that need of mine.


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25 Jan 2014, 1:06 pm

I can't remember ever punishing anyone.


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25 Jan 2014, 1:53 pm

My brothers and I used to punish our mother. My kid is NT and I have punished him before.


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