Do you tend to relate to wild animals more than people?

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20 Feb 2014, 5:49 am

I dont know why but sometimes I tend to relate more to wild animals more than people and even pets! Im not sure why though I can understand their terretoris and distance and sometimes even handle some wild animals without getting bit or being threatened by them or threatening them as well. Anyone else relate to this?


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20 Feb 2014, 6:17 am

I totally relate. Animals seem to act differently with me than others.
People say that about their pets when they are around me.
Shy pets are friendly with me and aggressive pets are tame and gentle.
When I sit in a field outdoors, birds land right next to me, chipmunks crawl
on my legs and sit in my lap. It's like we understand each other.



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20 Feb 2014, 8:34 am

Not really, I prefer beings I can hold a conversation with.



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20 Feb 2014, 10:31 am

Definitely not, though animals do seem to attract to me in a similar way to Ezra. My mum calls me the 'Puss magnet' because our cats almost always prefer to sleep/sit with me. >.>

I need to be with my own species to feel satisfied. I'd say that I'm actually too dependent on 4-5 people. My two best friends are especially important for my happiness, as despite being guys we hug a lot, sleep together, talk about everything. There are no pressures, and I feel like I lucked out by having them as friends. There's no need to say #nohomo or anything like that. I'm not diagnosed, but I seem to want to smother my friends in comparison to everyone else I've met, which failed until now.


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20 Feb 2014, 10:37 am

I don't relate to wild animals more than people (in fact, I'm scared of wild animals) but I do care about wild animals a lot. Wild animals seem to love me. One time when I was camping with my family when I was a little kid, it was night time and we were sitting around the camp fire, and all of a sudden a raccoon comes out of the woods and no joke, comes up to me and tries to sit on my lap. I was paralyzed with fear. He put his front paws up on my lap and I kept trying to shake him off, eventually he gave up and went back into the woods. I never went camping again after that.

Another story, my family has an inside joke that all the wild animals want to cross the street when I'm driving because EVERY time I drive, a wild animal of some sort decides to cross the road in front of me (turtles, mice, coyotes, foxes, deer, squirrels are the normal ones I see cross in front of me) they are lucky I watch for them because it happens so often. Animals never cross in front of my parents cars, only me! Its so strange!



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20 Feb 2014, 10:43 am

I never encounter any wild animals ... so how would I know? I don't like dogs, though ... so my guess is: no.



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20 Feb 2014, 10:57 am

I feed and talk to the wildlife in my backyard, I also practice martial arts and meditate back there too. In short, to answer the question, yes.


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20 Feb 2014, 11:31 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
I dont know why but sometimes I tend to relate more to wild animals more than people and even pets! Im not sure why though I can understand their terretoris and distance and sometimes even handle some wild animals without getting bit or being threatened by them or threatening them as well. Anyone else relate to this?


I do not consider that odd, given that an individual with an aspie brain in an adult state is supposed to handle survival on his own - just like a wild animal is.



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20 Feb 2014, 12:29 pm

They poop in my hand a lot.



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20 Feb 2014, 1:15 pm

I handle interaction with ANIMALS better than with people. I feel more free for some reason. WILD animals? Ummm....I'd love it but they have a tendency to want to run away or, if you persist (and sometimes even if you don't), to stomp, bite, or even eat you.

I'd say I'll pass on the wild ones, unless it's a squirrel that's semi-friendly and will let me offer it peanuts. Deer, moose, even raccoons, I'd rather not get involved. The first two can be dangerous, and the last one might even be rabid. Around here, there aren't likely to be any other kind of wild animals. Canids (wolves, coyotes, or coy-wolves), maybe, but they could also be dangerous and I'd rather not get bitten or have my throat torn, thank you.


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20 Feb 2014, 1:47 pm

Yes. I relate to wild animals.



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20 Feb 2014, 3:17 pm

I can relate to them sometimes I think they think like i do when it comes to interacting with others in an apprehensive and cautious manner. I am like that with other people I dont trust them and am nervous around them I dont like being touched out of the blue like a wild animal doesn't like being touched! Over long periods of time with interaction slowly I trust others.


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21 Feb 2014, 4:30 pm

I don't really empathise with wild animals, as they are just as intolerant towards members of their species who have difficulties with social skills as humans are. As difficult as it is fitting in with human society, I'm glad to be of this species, because I can reason with other humans, and don't have to rely on non-verbal skills to communicate.



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21 Feb 2014, 5:13 pm

Sethno wrote:
I handle interaction with ANIMALS better than with people. I feel more free for some reason. WILD animals? Ummm....I'd love it but they have a tendency to want to run away or, if you persist (and sometimes even if you don't), to stomp, bite, or even eat you.

I'd say I'll pass on the wild ones, unless it's a squirrel that's semi-friendly and will let me offer it peanuts. Deer, moose, even raccoons, I'd rather not get involved. The first two can be dangerous, and the last one might even be rabid. Around here, there aren't likely to be any other kind of wild animals. Canids (wolves, coyotes, or coy-wolves), maybe, but they could also be dangerous and I'd rather not get bitten or have my throat torn, thank you.


I'm largely the same. Pets and other domesticated animals, I may get along fine with (it varies per individual animal), better even than with most people, honestly. Most wild animals have, in my experience, not been all that willing to establish contact, which is very understandable considering human beings are probably the most dangerous predator on Earth so it makes sense for them to keep their distance.


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