Az29 wrote:
I often don't get jokes and my husband has to explain them to me and I simply shrug and say I still don't get it. I can understand that it's a joke and that it's supposed to be funny but I don't find it funny. Same with I often tell jokes that are so obscure they are not funny wheras in my mind they are hilarious but I have so many factors going on in my head, small little snippets of info that maybe I should tell but I have a knack of assuming the listener is on the same wave length and would just get it.
I tend to prefer puns and dark humour and my jokes revolve around that. Take for example family guy, I love that show because there are so many jokes, innuendo's etc that some people find offensive wheras I find them hilarious and they are the exact sort of jokes / funny comments I'd make myself.
A major problem I have is that I can't pretend to find something funny, I can't laugh to be polite so if someone tells a joke I don't find funny I will just stare at them, most of the time trying to figure out if that was it or if there's more, trying to figure out what part was funny etc.
I tend to really like jokes, even if they're ones that I have to think on for a while to figure it out, or even after people explain it to me. But as for the puns and dark humor, I'm the same way. Also, I have a very perverted mind, so I'll laugh at things like that, but I can't explain it to people since most get offended/upset over them. One thing I absolutely LOVE about my aspergers group therapy, is we can drop the perverted/dark humor jokes, and everyone laughs at them and doesn't get offended. Meanwhile, our therapist, who is NT, just shakes her head, and you can tell they bother her.