this is copied from my sept 06 blog, but I think it is pertinent:
Yesterday, I was shopping and went into the toy section, and I noticed something I had never noticed before (although I'm sure it has always been like this). I went down the girls aisle and noticed that all the figures, dolls, and even animals had disproporionately large heads, and on those heads they had disproportionately large features, especially eyes. These eyes were also very elaborate in design, having eyelashes, many different colors, and on some the highlights were in the shapes of stars, crescents, or hearts. Then I went down the boys aisle, and looked at the 'action' figures (there were no dolls or animals. The figures were in better proportion, except for having barrel chests and extremely large overly muscelled arms and legs. The heads were normal sized. The eyes were nominal, if they had them at all. Some had sunglasses or masks over them, and the ones that didn't were mostly just white, with a couple having black dots in the middle.
Now, I am not a psychologist so it makes me wonder if these features help steer the development of children, or if they are that way because that is what is important to the to children when growing up. (The nature vs. nurture argument) Either way, if that is what girls play with and are interested in versus boys, it explains a couple things in my past, like why a girl I was dating asked me during a phone call if I knew what color her eyes were (I did actually remember but didn't see why it was important.) But I guess this shows, one way or another, that girls pay more attention to facial characteristics than boys do, while boys are more interested in general physique. Truthfully, except for scars or facial hair, I think any of the heads on boys toys could be interchanged and no one would notice.
Now that I know about how some aspies don't like eye contact (it has never been an issue for me) it makes me wonder what effect, if any, these different styles of eyes have on aspie and autistic kids.
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