Does anyone else have problems with facial expressions?

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Often when i am at school and look around class, when i look at someone they look back weird/angry like. One time i asked and they said they found i weird that i was looking at them withiout any facial expression. And when i came to think about it I realised that I often times don't have any natural facial expressions. I have to think about smiling when i am talking to someone and think about not looking too happy when someone is sad.

Does anyone else have this issue?

I'm kind of like that. I sometimes catch myself "being neutral" and try to "slip into" a mild facial expression.

When I was in school I was especially jealous of people who displayed very expressive facial expressions as they would talk; especially certain authors and actors. I'd try to practice a "profound" (LOL) expression and try to match it to my speech but it always came off phony. I haven't done that in years.

Apart from the occasional eyebrow raise, I rarely make any facial expressions, all with the eyebrows (: . I have an odd smile and don't really use my lips to communicate as I often stim / twitch with them.

Definitely.

I'm very much the same way and in fact that was one of the signs I saw in my self that lead to an aspergers diagnosis. Luckily for me (Or unluckily), I've work in sales for 7 years so I've had time to study people and mimic their expressions to pass off as NT.

But I constantly have to think about making a slight smile when I'm around people or else I look angry or emotionless to everyone. I'm much more relaxed and comfortable with my natural blank face, though I always get asked "What's wrong?" when I'm acting normal so I have to act

The hardest and most uncomfortable thing about all of this is faking eye contact... I've learned to do it, but that doesn't make it easy or comfortable.

Why do we have to look in peoples eyes when talking to them? Argh.

Yeah, may facial expression don't fit what and how I feel. This is often compounded with the fact I can't read or see other people's expressions at all and often trying to study it, it is often exhausting focusing on it an putting a word to the face. Unfortunately, even in facial expressions don't exactly match how a person feels.

Yeah, someone once said to me while I was looing neutral/blank: LOL, you look like you are going to murder someone, you look right through my soul

i have trouble with subtle facial expressions

I am not diagnosed with anything, so maybe I shouldn't speak, but I do have a bit of diffuclty with facial expressions. I can read others non verbal communication VERY well. However people tell me the blank face I usually have is creepy or scary. Generally I am blank unless I am laughing.

i'm told i have a blank expression a lot of the time. except when i get angry/annoyed my mom says it shows in my eyes.

I have trouble manipulating my own facial expressions and understanding the facial expressions of others as well. Whenever I try to judge an average person's given facial expression, unless it's something really obvious like a big grin or whatever, I'm usually way off the mark.

I find it difficult to use facial expressions unless it's a strong emotion. The strong emotion takes over the facial expression for me. Other than that, I've been told that I often have a neutral face expression. This has led to people calling me "cold" and "emotionless" before which angers and frustrates me.

I've been told I look so serious or even angry when I know I'm not. Usually occurs when I'm concentrating on something but those that don't know me often misread my facial expression.

As people get to know me better they seem to clue in to this about me and it becomes a non-issue.

This has happened to me before.

^^^ I get that too sometimes

Dr cheeba wrote:

That used to happen so often with girlfriends.It was so annoying since there was nothing wrong.
I would often get "what are you thinking about" that too was annoying.It was usually just random stuff and when i was snapped out of it i would usually forget what it was i was thinking about.

Though there are times with my friends where i have a big smile on.

Same here, even by total strangers. Like one time I was at a store, and the cashier said that I looked upset or angry (can't remember his exact words), but I was neither, I was feeling just fine. I also never smile for pictures, unless there was something happening and I smiled for some reason that has nothing to do with the picture, but my family bug me a lot about it so I try to force myself to smile, but even then it just doesn't look natural. I remember once my aunt wanted to take a picture and she was bugging me a lot about it so I tried to do a big smile ... I look like a maniac on that picture lol, its just not natural for me. I learned to smile a bit more when I am around people tho, so they don't think I'm upset or anything, but I don't do the big smile thing (unless I am actually laughing).