did you attack people,when younger

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when I was kid,I got into fights and attack other
kids.Im better now,I had very bad anger issues.
Im way better now. anyone else had issues
as a kid.

Apparently, when I was young, I used to lash out and attack my younger brother, but then he got bigger than me and it flipped to where he'd kick have physical/mental power over me. Other than that, no.

Only when provoked
Back when I couldn't talk so whenever I had hurt feelings, I did it to show how I was feeling
I also went through a phase where I would choke and squeeze my brother's face and do pinching


I only bit and scratched and hit and kicked and shoved. I never seriously harmed anyone or do any destruction.

In elementary school I attacked people a few times, but it was in retaliation against an injustice they did against me, like physical attacking me to beat me up for no reason, or bullying, or stealing something from me.

I am not saying it was the right decision, but it is what I chose to do sometimes when people offended me.

I learned that school faculty get really pissed off about retaliations or even fleeing or self defense against assaults by other students, and consider it many times worse than the initial attacker's actions. I never thought their blaming/condemning the victim/retaliater mentality and letting the initiater go free made the minutest amount of sense.

I also used to beat up my brother because he used to love to follow me around and pester and harass me continuously to no end. I would get fed up and knock him down and he'd start crying. It started and ended in pretty much the same manner each time with slight variations. I guess he was a bit of a masochist, he never explained why he needed to bother me so much, and knew what I would do when he annoyed me to the critical level.

I am usually chill, but when people give me a real bad time, I get sick of it, and I start getting the anger, and want to finish the problem. That's the natural me. But I usually try to fight the anger because bystanders usually never understand or empathize my side of the issue, and take the others' side no matter how corrupt their actions were.

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I was violent and very aggressive as a kid. I was kicked out of nursery for attacking the teacher with a chair. I was expelled from school twice and suspended twice for violent attacks. I was said to have "severe behavioural problems" as a kid.

Even now, as an adult, if someone touches me unexpectedly, I lash out and hit the person.

I've been sectioned many times by the police for meltdowns in public and when the police officers grabbed me, I used every part of my available body to attack them. Because I was so agitated. They had to handcuff me and strap my legs together.

I also have had self-directed violence all my life. As a kid I used to bite myself and hit myself. I still pull my skin off, punch walls and bang my head.

yes, when provoked or angered...I use to punch my brother a lot when I was younger, and there was one time when I scratched him in the neck and it bled
my mom scold me after that

Yeah :/

I punched my cousin in the mouth a few times very badly. I got on top of a class mate in third grade and was trying to strangle him. This girl who I went to this program with was very mean to me. She kept saying hurtful things and threatening me. No one would listen. I grabbed her by her hair and was going to punch her. Instead, I just stood there. She tried to punch and scratch me, but I didn't feel it at all. I was going to throw her on the ground and then punch her, but I just stood there like that for about 30 seconds. It was the first time I felt like I could control the outcome of my anger. So, I let go.

I'm now a very non violent person. Violence scares me. I was just very impulsive, and violence was sometimes the only way I knew how to communicate that people were hurting me.

yes. i had a lot of trouble with other kids until i was well into my teens, i would hit, pull. bite, grab and kick my friends. my body would tingle if i didnt

No, not at all. But I also never really feel uncontrollable rage or agression.

I am aggressive when I am annoyed, I can't find any other solution for that, my brother is not listening to me. He is nearly taller than me but younger than me.

In High school I was the least popular kid by far. I was considered different, and I was bullied, and ignored. I also used to be overweight, which certainly didn't help. After my sophomore year, I decided I had enough. I went to the gym every single day during the summer. Since I didn't have a car, I walked 10 miles round trip to the gym.

I would spend around 3 to 4 hours at the gym, and was able to take off about 35 pounds in a little over 2 months and get pretty formidable in physique.

I proceeded to get into 4 fights that year, and there were only 6 fights the entire year in my high school. So yeah, I think that kids who are socially isolated and repeatedly provoked can eventually get to the point where they've had their fill. I've never been in a physical confrontation since.

A few times but usually because I misinterpreted it as needing to do so....like once when I was a little kid this boy was chasing this girl around the playground at school and they where actually playing tag or some game involving chasing and running but the girl was screaming so I thought he was trying to hurt her so I tackled him and was throwing sand at his face....later it was explained they where playing though I still got in trouble for it.

Occasionally, usually biting and scratching my mum or sister during a meltdown/tantrum etc. but my mum said that mostly I wasn't an aggressive kid. Sometimes I'd to try to attack bullies at school (but I was weak and usually the bully hurt me more anyway) and a few times I'd attack because I thought another child had attacked me when they hadn't. At daycare a child accidentally bumped into me and I tried to attack him. The occasional violence stopped completely by the time I was 13 or 14. My mum still has some permanent marks from me biting her though.

Unfortunately I was a bully before 7 and I was violent. After that I would still attack people but mostly for defensive reasons. It has been a very long time since I attacked someone.

I'd beat up my younger sister, but that's about it. I didn't actually hurt her, she's just a crybaby.

The only times I ever actually "attacked" people and did some damage were from rugby. I lost count of how many times I stomped on a stray hand or foot, pulled some loose hair, or left a large bruise.

As I said in another thread, when I was going to an all ASD school for years, there were plenty of bully types and I got picked on and even psychically assaulted several times by autistic kids. The same as I would've gotten picked on assaulted by NT kids in a public school.