Yeah, I think I've got it now! I posted my question around 4am this morning and went to bed and thought some more about it and figured the difference would be something like - if you did art work, learned all about it, wrote about it, thought about it all the time, talked about it non stop - all the ways other Special Interests manifest themselves in us, then that would be different from someone who was just addicted to playing them.
Thank you all! Happy gaming!
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Your Aspie score: 151 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 60 of 200
Formally diagnosed in 2007.
Learn the simple joy of being satisfied with little, rather than always wanting more.