Identity Problems (not neurologically)

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BeggingTurtle
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02 Nov 2014, 10:20 pm

One of the primary problems I've read is teenagers having identity issues. I feel like I don't have a lot to define myself. The only job that I do that feels decently defining is lighting for plays and various events at my school. Aside, I feel like people define themselves better than I do. I feel like I have little talents to define myself because someone could easily take my place, provided they had the proper training.

I was born in China, but I've primarily grown up in America, and especially as a kid, and not really learning how to talk until I was 7-8 years old, Being in American elementary school, and only hearing my parents speak Chinese to me, my voice kind of attaches itself to that accent. But when I was 12, it shifted to being more American. Now my voice is kind of in this awkward state between Chinese/American mix.

Just in general, I wonder if I'm defined as a person, if one at all.


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02 Nov 2014, 11:14 pm

You're 17, the prime age of identity confusion (Erikson's psychosocial stages).

Olympiadis has some theories regarding identity (I'm sure he will come by soon).

How do you define yourself? This is how I do it:


. I am male
. I am 19 years old
. I am homosexual
. I attend university, therefore I am a student

. I enjoy fields related to neurology or astronomy
. I like to eat feta cheese


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