When you can speak and present yourself very well and you have difficulty organizing things, being a lifelong issue going back to early childhood, to where you need an organizer to help you, and you tell your psychiatrist, they will assume it is because of one of three things, and will present the solution for you:
1.) It's a mood issue, that is, you're depressed (and probably bipolar, 'cause he can see you fidgeting in your chair); you just need to get the perfect combination of antipsychotics, mood stabilizers, and antidepressants. Once that happens, and maybe you get some CBT, the organizational problems will simply go away.
2.) It's an anxiety issue. You just need lots of psychotheraphy and it'll get fixed.
3.) It's a personality or character issue. Maybe you're just lazy, and need a good whack on the back of your head every so often. Maybe you're doing it as a ritual for the sun goddess or it's a passive-aggressive way to get back at somebody, so you need long periods of time on the couch to talk about how being disorganized makes you feel, and work out your Oedipus urges (since those are probably the cause, he thinks).
And then in comes the all-knowing relative who knows the impairments you've had are simply "playing a victim." He tells you you can't always depend on an organizer and that you've just got overcome your good-for-nothing laziness once and for all and once you work really really hard you'll be able to make lifelong impairments begone forever!
Of course, you find that if someone helps structure the activity, you can actually get the organizing job done and well, and feel good about doing it! But no one's going to do that. They'd rather just talk down to you from a distance.
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"You have a responsibility to consider all sides of a problem and a responsibility to make a judgment and a responsibility to care for all involved." --Ian Danskin
