Meltdowns from school

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I'm having a meltdown right now because of people at school treating me in a bad way. First there were two people coming to a place me and my friends sat in during lunch time and told us to move because its 'their place' so we moved because they didn't go and after they sat there for some few minutes they moved, it really annoyed me so much. Then some weeks later we sat again in the same place so they came again on that day and told us to move for them some place while there was no place for more people or to move from this place but we didn't, we ignored them and didn't look at them so one of those two started telling me "hey you, I don't what your name, [some name similar to my name]" then I told them its not their place and that theres no place for them then one of them came and sat between me and my friend so my friend moved and came to sit in front of me down, that person said thank you to my friend and smiled to my other friend but I don't why was so mean to me. So then the next day that person asked my little sibiling who waits for me everyday after school if I said something about a fight or something but my sibiling said no, this person really irritates, the first that two people came to move us the person knew my name but this time they're trying to act like they're cool not remembering others names
And now in these days the class called me and my friends to be with them but they're only being mean to us, one of my classmates takes papers and things from me or sometimes my water without asking and got angry at me when I was talking about anime and said it was annoying a long, another person also said that, although the rest of the class are ok with me but the one who takes my things and is mean to me is the one who caused me my current meltdown, I also once heard this same person making fun of my name and my father's name
What do you do in situations like this?? I tried ignoring but I can't

that sucks. school and the people there would make me have meltdowns all the time. i'm not sure what you can really do about it though. personally i would always just try to ignore them, which only works sometimes. and it seems they are going out of their way to mess with you. i would hide in either the library or bathroom sometimes when things got too much. maybe they will get bored and leave you alone, but in my experience that can take a long time, and in the case of one of my bullies, he never got tired of it. even bullied me at my job after we graduated! but i think that is a more extreme situation, sorry for the doom and gloom.


i'm sure somebody here who is older maybe will be able to give you better advice, but hang in there. venting helps a bit but i know you'd rather just not have it happen at all. about the person taking paper and things from you, is that during class time? could you talk to a teacher? or could you go to a councilor? sometimes they can help.

I think there are different rules, which tend to be true, most of the time, depending on the place and the people. Could I ask you to be more specific, in describing where this is happening, and who are the people? I apologize if this seems indiscreet.

School is cruel and teachers don't help. They are honestly too absorbed into their own lives for the most part.

My school (New England schools are apparently weird, as teachers are called by first names ) lets us eat in the hallway, so my friends are mostly punks and nerds who hide near the backdoor during lunch and play computer games. If you are in the cafeteria, try and find a place to nest, then move if you have to.