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16 Nov 2014, 6:34 pm

What makes you angry mostly and how do you respond and feel towards the person you're angry towards??? And what were the worst things you did while you're angry??? And describe how much hate you felt towards that person

Whenever I remember myself being angry it makes me laugh lol

If theres someone I'm angry at I act angry and mean and agressive towards them and act like they don't exist to try to hurt them lol ((malice))

Theres this girl in class I used to hate for so many reasons xp whenever I saw her I never looked at her and whenever she spoke to me I would never reply lol I never acknowledged her existence because so angry towards her xD
Sometimes I shout at them in a very agressive way if its a face to face thing xD
Theres this woman who once pumped us with her car and it made a small damage to our car, some of it color was gone so she started denying that she did that lol it got me really angry I started shouting bad things to her in an agressive xD I really felt like putting that woman down and driving a car over her because she was denying that she didn't do that

Worst thing I did from anger, I still feel like a bad person about this even after years passed:
There was this time when a girl said something bad to my sister which made me angry but I didn't want to go into trouble fighting so I made my sister steal each day something when their class was empty like school books from her desk so she won't be able to study, that girl ended changing the school because of that.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:03 pm

if there were no god there would be few limits to how I would channel my anger. I realize that is totally lame.



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16 Nov 2014, 10:34 pm

Even when I'm absolutely furious, I hardly ever show it. Also, I don't really get angry at individuals as much as I do organizations and abstract concepts. When I encounter someone representing a group or idea that I have issues with, one of two things usually happens:

1) I take something so that I don't lose my composure, even when someone or a group of people around me is/are freaking out and making ridiculous, over-the-top threats. My usual comportment has been called "zen" by my peers and "calm and contemplative" by those I'm forced to be under for the time being. Still, under some circumstances I need some help to maintain that demeanor. Once that's been taken care of, I either try to handle the situation diplomatically (which I usually try to get help for) or ignore it if it's not an immediate physical threat to me and there isn't much I can do about it.

2) Sometimes, someone does something stupid and violent. Sometimes it's not even really violent, but invites violence. If that's the case, I usually don;t have time to get my pill bottle and instead just get the hell out of there before I find myself in a truly unfortunate situation. Depending on the nature of the situation, I might go back after the situation's resolved, b***h about it for a few minutes then get back to my day or I might go home and not leave the house for the rest of the day if it's something really scary.

Last time #2 happened, I really scared the s**t out of some people. I got the hell out of the place I was at right as the police showed up and I didn't come back for a few hours. They thought I'd been arrested again, but in reality I was just waiting for the situation to blow over so that I could go back to grab my thermos and laptop then get myself home. I was pissed about if for a long time (as a matter of fact, I'm still pissed about what happened that day and will continue to happen for years to come) but I didn't let anybody see that.



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16 Nov 2014, 11:07 pm

I get that out of my system at my jiu jitsu gym, when we put on gloves and spar with strikes. If I were younger I might have tried some amateur fights but that boat has sailed.


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20 Nov 2014, 5:35 am

If I suppress my anger towards someone it gets bottled up and it grows bigger so I usually don't control it after that I'd feel guilty about how bashing or mean I was, I always try to avoid people who would make me angry I don't like getting angry



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20 Nov 2014, 5:53 am

When I'm angry... I either; shut down, or suppress them until the given time which it depends, or be somewhere and break pencils or whatever until I wear out most of my energy.

Funny, people thinks I'm angry all the time when I'm not. But when I'm actually angry, people either think I'm going to cry, or going crazy...


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20 Nov 2014, 7:52 am

I just hold it in and obsessively think about it for a long time, then I blame myself and don't usually act out on it.

Is it healthy? Not at all.


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