Rocket123 wrote:
A cousin of mine (who is a Doctor and works in an autism research center) suggested that OCD and ASD seem to share a spectrum.
I would concede that they share some qualities, but I was married to an OCD spouse for most of a decade and we were as different in our neuro-quirks as we were similar. I don't think the two conditions are part of the same spectrum, though neurologically speaking, both may involve some of the same miswiring.
It seemed to me that our rigid and repetitive behaviors differed significantly in
motivation. Hers seemed to involve a lack of impulse control and an almost superstitious "magical thinking", that made her feel she
had to do something a specific way, else the world would come to an end - a toxic combination of adrenaline and neurosis. It's the thinking that keeps gamblers risking their dwindling resources, irrationally believing that if they just keep betting, or find a slot machine that's "hot," the NEXT pull will win the lost rent money back.
I, on the other hand, become rigid about doing things a certain way, because the more reliable my routines, the less unexpected sensory input I have to juggle. It helps keep the overload to a minimal level, so I can function without shutdowns and emotional meltdowns. It might seem obsessive, but there's a method to my madness. As far as compulsions go, they are mainly confined to my obsessive interests, in that I often compulsively buy things I can't really afford, to add them to my collections.
Of course both resulted in personalities insistent that their way was the only right way and anyone who disagreed was being irrational.