You have most of the traits that has and does affect functioning (ever if just inwardly causing strong continuous stress) Enough social cognition can be learned by well into adulthood to appear non-autistic. Giving social cognition the "highest" priority means agreeing with the nuerotypical highest priority which historically usually ends up putting the onus totally on us, and avoids the role of NT misunderstanding and discrimination.
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Professionally Identified and joined WP August 26, 2013
DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity
“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman