Therapist says I should be in a special school

Page 1 of 1 [ 10 posts ] 

jenisautistic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jan 2013
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,277

17 Dec 2014, 10:35 pm

My therapist suggest I should be in a special school ( and or out of district )she also suggested I should learn how to take care myself like shower myself and dress myself and stuff.

She gave me a paper with directions on how to shower with and without doing my hair i'm trying to tell her I need more help to do my hair dry off and turn the shower on and off. She had me wash my dolls hair in their bathroom and said by that assessment I could do it on my own and that you seen kids with autism that are younger than me that can wash and dry themselves and their hair in the shower and do their own hair but I still think I need help she also says that she should cut my hair so what is easier for me to wash.

(Apparently she only sees high functioning kids although she does see level 2 kids not mid functioning like me she said she didn't want to argue about me being mid functioning .)

But I want to wait to cut it for locks for love.

I just wanted to be in a 15-1 or autism class in my school.


_________________
Your Aspie score: 192 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 9 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie PDD assessment score= 172 (severe PDD)
Autism= Awesome, unique ,Special, talented, Intelligent, Smart and Mysterious


progaspie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 22 Jul 2011
Age: 71
Gender: Male
Posts: 673
Location: Australia

18 Dec 2014, 4:11 am

Whether you end up going to a special school, or go back to your old school, I gather are matters still to be worked through in discussions with your therapist. It does make sense to me though that your therapist would be discussing personal hygiene matters with you, because your ability to take care of yourself will help determine which school you end up going to. Since you're expressed interest in returning to your old school, I think it is in your best interest to listen to what your therapist is telling you, because following her advice, will get you back to your old school sooner rather than later.



jenisautistic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jan 2013
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,277

18 Dec 2014, 12:48 pm

jenisautistic wrote:
My therapist suggest I should be in a special school ( and or out of district )she also suggested I should learn how to take care myself like shower myself and dress myself and stuff.

She gave me a paper with directions on how to shower with and without doing my hair i'm trying to tell her I need more help to do my hair dry off and turn the shower on and off. She had me wash my dolls hair in their bathroom and said by that assessment I could do it on my own and that you seen kids with autism that are younger than me that can wash and dry themselves and their hair in the shower and do their own hair but I still think I need help she also says that she should cut my hair so what is easier for me to wash.

(Apparently she only sees high functioning kids although she does see level 2 kids not mid functioning like me she said she didn't want to argue about me being mid functioning .)

But I want to wait to cut it for locks for love.

I just wanted to be in a 15-1 or autism class in my school.


Forgot to add that she wants to put me in a mentally ill/psychiatric program and I don't agree with her.


_________________
Your Aspie score: 192 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 9 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie PDD assessment score= 172 (severe PDD)
Autism= Awesome, unique ,Special, talented, Intelligent, Smart and Mysterious


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

18 Dec 2014, 8:04 pm

I don't get it---you've been taking care of your physical needs for years. What makes the therapist think you need education in them now?

Have you regressed in that aspect of things? If so, I'm sure you could regain the ability on your own. You don't need flash cards to teach you how to take a shower!

For some reason, I don't like the sound of this.

But then, I'm not there.



jenisautistic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jan 2013
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,277

18 Dec 2014, 8:19 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I don't get it---you've been taking care of your physical needs for years. What makes the therapist think you need education in them now?

Have you regressed in that aspect of things? If so, I'm sure you could regain the ability on your own. You don't need flash cards to teach you how to take a shower!

For some reason, I don't like the sound of this.

But then, I'm not there.



No I've always gotten help with showering and my grandmother always does my hair.

http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=246688


Quote:
im not talking about functioning levels Im talking about socially like the class system in a sense.

honesty im not intiry sure - I have both low and high functioning / good and bad traits I cant cook, wash or brush my hair, take my own medication pick out my own clothing ( I didn't dress myself until I was 10 or 11 ) do my homework alone, I often times have severe sensory overload, most days im either tired over stimulated or completely lost In my thoughts, a lot of physical challenges which im not sure if its related to autism or not, speech issues ect but I am also smart, good at writing (not handwriting though) ,when I can actually get my speech issues under control I can be pretty articulate, when my memory decides to work properly I can remember scripts, song lyrics, definitions, answers commercials, I could competey zoned in to reading, watching tv, writing, rehursing that nothing can distract me, when I get interested in something I will do it no matter what anyone else thinks, I am not judgmental, I am unique, I have a different view of the world.


_________________
Your Aspie score: 192 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 9 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie PDD assessment score= 172 (severe PDD)
Autism= Awesome, unique ,Special, talented, Intelligent, Smart and Mysterious


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

18 Dec 2014, 9:05 pm

I saw your tape. In terms of your speech, you clutter (I clutter also). You do leave words out.Your speech issues aren't major IMHO ("in my honest opinion")--I studied speech pathology in college. You have a decent voice. Maybe you rush too much when you speak--like I do. Maybe you need to slow down.

I think you're a decent writer when you edit your writing properly. There are times when you don't. I can tell.

I think you're one of those who does better when they're motivated.

There are autistic people who have trouble taking care of themselves, but who succeed academically. You could be one of those sorts of people. Maybe you should be educated in "taking care of yourself"--but you should be educated in your strengths, too, IMHO. You should be given a chance academically IMHO. You do enjoy doing academic work, right?



jenisautistic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jan 2013
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,277

18 Dec 2014, 9:35 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I saw your tape. In terms of your speech, you clutter (I clutter also). You do leave words out.Your speech issues aren't major IMHO ("in my honest opinion")--I studied speech pathology in college. You have a decent voice. Maybe you rush too much when you speak--like I do. Maybe you need to slow down.

I think you're a decent writer when you edit your writing properly. There are times when you don't. I can tell.

I think you're one of those who does better when they're motivated.

There are autistic people who have trouble taking care of themselves, but who succeed academically. You could be one of those sorts of people. Maybe you should be educated in "taking care of yourself"--but you should be educated in your strengths, too, IMHO. You should be given a chance academically IMHO. You do enjoy doing academic work, right?


Which tape ?

I do but it seems like I have no choice. I'm very anxious and depressed about this and I want to take the regents and/or the SATs but I don't know if I can

My writing and reading has regressed and I don't know if I can get back to the way it was maybe if I got better I could take the SATs and the regents.

http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=266475&start=15

So hopefully eventually maybe next year or the end of this year I will take regents but who knows right now my teacher and I are working on 5 -8 questions at a day and my anxiety is a bit better according to my teacher.

But right now I'm so further regressed that I don't know if I ever get back on my feet.


_________________
Your Aspie score: 192 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 9 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie PDD assessment score= 172 (severe PDD)
Autism= Awesome, unique ,Special, talented, Intelligent, Smart and Mysterious


kraftiekortie
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 4 Feb 2014
Gender: Male
Posts: 87,510
Location: Queens, NYC

18 Dec 2014, 9:41 pm

You posted a tape of yourself with your grandmother, asking us if you're autistic.

It's possible your reading and writing have regressed because you haven't been practicing your reading and writing. That happens to anyone, even geniuses.

Right now, I think you're in a decent frame of mind. You have insight. I wish you would start doing lots of reading, and lots of writing.



Last edited by kraftiekortie on 18 Dec 2014, 9:43 pm, edited 1 time in total.

jenisautistic
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 21 Jan 2013
Age: 26
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,277

18 Dec 2014, 9:42 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
You posted a tape of yourself with your grandmother, asking us if you're autistic.



Oh that tape


_________________
Your Aspie score: 192 of 200 Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 9 of 200 You are very likely an Aspie PDD assessment score= 172 (severe PDD)
Autism= Awesome, unique ,Special, talented, Intelligent, Smart and Mysterious


EzraS
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Sep 2013
Gender: Male
Posts: 27,828
Location: Twin Peaks

18 Dec 2014, 9:58 pm

jenisautistic wrote:
My therapist suggest I should be in a special school ( and or out of district )she also suggested I should learn how to take care myself like shower myself and dress myself and stuff.

She gave me a paper with directions on how to shower with and without doing my hair i'm trying to tell her I need more help to do my hair dry off and turn the shower on and off. She had me wash my dolls hair in their bathroom and said by that assessment I could do it on my own and that you seen kids with autism that are younger than me that can wash and dry themselves and their hair in the shower and do their own hair but I still think I need help she also says that she should cut my hair so what is easier for me to wash.

(Apparently she only sees high functioning kids although she does see level 2 kids not mid functioning like me she said she didn't want to argue about me being mid functioning .)

But I want to wait to cut it for locks for love.

I just wanted to be in a 15-1 or autism class in my school.


I've always been in a special school and I think it's been best for me. I did try mainstream at a public school last year and I couldn't handle the curriculum, the big school, big classrooms and lack of individualized teaching.

I also have trouble with showers and my dad or cousin help me out with that as needed. Along with a lot of other simple self care things. But my goal is always towards making myself as independent as possible.

kraftiekortie wrote:
Have you regressed in that aspect of things? If so, I'm sure you could regain the ability on your own. You don't need flash cards to teach you how to take a shower!


Actually for me, I do need that sort of thing. There's been times when I've gotten in and just stood there until the water started getting cold. Sometimes I don't remember to do things like wash my hair. Sometimes I don't really dry myself and walk out dripping all over the place. I've had my dad or cousin talk me through it many times, to try getting it right. It's pretty frustrating not being able to remember certain steps in something that should be simple.