Looking for help on current situation

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outcastleader13
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28 Jan 2015, 8:48 pm

Hello, I am a 20 year old with Aspergers. I have struggled with it my whole life.. It has always been hard for me to make friends and, I really did not have a group of friends until I was about 15. This group was all full of NT's(Neuro-typicals) and they had trouble understanding my actions and behaviors sometimes.... This had lead to them picking on me and saying mean things to me on many occasions.. It got to a critical point when they took my car without my permission as, at least what they called, a "joke." After that I was done with them and that was the end of my metaphorical tenure with that group of people.
The problem now is that I am currently without friends and I am very lonely. :| I really am not use to this and it sucks. :x Its always been hard for me to make friends and I can't seem to do it at my community college. Is there any advice anyone can give me on my situation?



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28 Jan 2015, 8:57 pm

Do you have any particular "special interest?"

I would join a club which caters to your special interest. I would also go to lectures which deal with your special interest, or something which is related to it.

What is your major?



outcastleader13
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28 Jan 2015, 8:59 pm

Currently looking into medical technology.. undeclared at the moment... yeah I am taking things slower than usual lol



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28 Jan 2015, 9:13 pm

Hello Can I be your friend? I have an interesting offer for you



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29 Jan 2015, 1:29 am

outcastleader13 wrote:
Hello, I am a 20 year old with Aspergers. I have struggled with it my whole life.. It has always been hard for me to make friends and, I really did not have a group of friends until I was about 15. This group was all full of NT's(Neuro-typicals) and they had trouble understanding my actions and behaviors sometimes.... This had lead to them picking on me and saying mean things to me on many occasions.. It got to a critical point when they took my car without my permission as, at least what they called, a "joke." After that I was done with them and that was the end of my metaphorical tenure with that group of people.
The problem now is that I am currently without friends and I am very lonely. :| I really am not use to this and it sucks. :x Its always been hard for me to make friends and I can't seem to do it at my community college. Is there any advice anyone can give me on my situation?



Welcome to wrong planet.
We won't be mean to you like that.