catalina wrote:
have you think about acquiring an assistence dog?
You clearly do not understand much about dogs. Contrary to popular belief, guide dogs for the blind, do not, never have and nor will they ever decide when to cross the road. They are dogs. Trainers do not sit a dog on the side of the road, hold its head, move its head from side to side, and say, see those cars there, we have enough room to cross now. Dogs CANNOT judge the flow of traffic. A blind person MUST be able to get around with a white cane before they are trained with a guide dog. The person decides where to go, not the dog.
Blind people are taught, during what is referred to as Orientation and Mobility training to use their hearing to judge the flow of traffic. They can hear which direction the cars are going in, they can hear the sounds of traffic lights, etc. But they will not cross really main roads alone, without traffic lights, as they simply are not able to do so. A guide dog can help in that it will ensure they walk straight across the road, very easy to go slightly off course with a cane, but the dog cannot and does not decide when to go, and it cannot tell the person not to go.
Guide dogs are specifically trained to ignore traffic light signals, as it is up the human to decide whether it is safe to cross. A dog can learn the different beep sounds for stop verses walk, but does not comprehend a ambulance going past or the like. If you are standing at traffic lights and hear a siren, you stop, waiting for it to go past. A guide dog cannot be taught such things, as they rely on doing things every day and no one experiences such things every day.
I would be consulting with an occupational therapist with extensive experience in Autism and sensory issues to see if they can come up with ways to assist you. What works for one person will not work for another. You could consider orientation and mobility training from someone who works with the blind, to see if strategies that work for them in terms of teaching them to use hearing, can help you, but it may not help. But a dog cannot make the decisions that you are wanting it to make.