will@rd wrote:
Fnord wrote:
an official diagnosis usually involves a questionnaire or an interview that must, by necessity, involve your parents.
Not once you're a legal adult. It's standard procedure in most cases, but not an absolute requirement.
If your coping skills are good enough that you don't need any assistance surviving (for the time being at least), then there's no rush to make it official. If you're still in school, you might try asking a guidance counselor (or a staff psychologist, if they have one) if they could refer you for an evaluation - that however,
would involve your family at some point.
The reason they want to speak with the family is to get the perspective of you, when you were younger so they have a fuller/complete picture of you throughout your life. When I went in to get mine, both of my parents are deceased so I ended up taking in my paperwork from the caseworkers from when I was under the state's care as a child as a substitute for my parents.
And yes, once you are a certain age and don't really need a diagnosis to get accommodations, then it's more of just a personal knowing or confirmation that you aren't alone or weird- which is also a perfectly legitimate reason to get a diagnosis. It's not just about what the function it serves for others (your employer, your doctor)- it's also about the function it serves you (the knowledge that you aren't weird or a freak or just "socially awkward.")
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