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I have someone in another online community that I admire a lot, and I like to ask her for advice because I look up to her. Over the last several weeks, she has ignored a lot of my messages and I know they weren't rude. But she did respond to some of them and she also reposts and shares things from my page and comments/likes things of mine. I know she is very popular and gets dozens or even hundreds of messages a day, and she's posted updates stating that she often has trouble reading through all her messages and has said she is sometimes shy with certain things. We are mutual followers and have been for awhile. I feel confused and I wonder if I should stop messaging her altogether because maybe I'm bothering her or if maybe she really hasn't seen all her messages. She often gets drunk and it is entirely possible she usually quickly posts things from her phone and might not even look at them everyday. What do you think?

I think she just didn't see your other messages. I doubt you're bothering her any more than all the other people messaging her.

Whether you should keep messaging her or not depends on you. Do you still want to message her, even though you know a lot of your messages won't get replies?