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AspieGurl
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26 Mar 2007, 6:52 pm

This was rather interesting so I thought I post it.

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http://www.wikihow.com/Introduce-Yourself

How to Introduce Yourself
Having trouble introducing yourself? While introductions come easy to the extrovert, the introvert will go as far as feeling anxiety when surrounded by people whom they do not know. Some tips to try:

Steps
Look people straight in the eyes - eye contact is important because it shows that you care and also shows self confidence.
Smile - it is important to keep a nice, bright smile (and fresh breath too). Your smile is your icebreaker, it draws people to you because you will look like a happy, stable person.
Handshake - a firm handshake, once again, demonstrates your self confidence, but be sure you don't break the other person's arm or hand. Just a squeeze and control hand shake.
Say your name and immediately ask for theirs - then repeat their name while saying - "it's a pleasure to meet you John" or "nice to meet you Jane" - repeating the person's name will help you remember their name and again, will also show you care.
Add all these together and you have a nice, confident, smooth introduction.



Tips
Keep a napkin or tissue nearby to avoid shaking with a sweaty hand.
Keep your focus on the person you are meeting - give them the respect you would like to receive.



Warnings
Avoid eating anything that might stick to your teeth, like spinach.
Take small bites of appetizers so that you never get caught with a mouthful.


I think most of us can introduce ourselves to anther person but I thought it was interesting none the less.


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26 Mar 2007, 6:55 pm

You should do it as simply as possible.


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26 Mar 2007, 6:56 pm

Those steps just make me feel ill thinking about them. I need to do something so that I don't need this garbage.



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26 Mar 2007, 6:56 pm

AspieGurl wrote:
Steps
Look people straight in the eyes - eye contact is important because it shows that you care and also shows self confidence.
Smile - it is important to keep a nice, bright smile (and fresh breath too). Your smile is your icebreaker, it draws people to you because you will look like a happy, stable person.
Handshake - a firm handshake, once again, demonstrates your self confidence, but be sure you don't break the other person's arm or hand. Just a squeeze and control hand shake.
Say your name and immediately ask for theirs - then repeat their name while saying - "it's a pleasure to meet you John" or "nice to meet you Jane" - repeating the person's name will help you remember their name and again, will also show you care.


Actually, I find that while knowing this is what one does, it does not always come out in a "nice, confident, smooth" manner. The smile can be hard to fake and the NT will notice something is amiss with the smile, or you just can't get the handshake down right - can you smile and shake hands at the same time? And so on... If only it were as easy as that.



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26 Mar 2007, 7:00 pm

I'm just imagining what the effect of my 'smile' along with looking someone in the eye would have. People look away when I do either of these. I think it looks like I'm about to tear their throat out.