Norny wrote:
Differentiating between typical and autistic stimming can be difficult. I don't know how to, personally.
From a sensory regulation perspective, there is no difference between NT and autistic stimming. NTs click their pens, drum their fingers or tap their feet for the exact same reason that we flap, rock or spin; to gain pleasant sensory input and regulate our systems.
The difference lies in the intensity, and the specific types of stimming. NTs do not stim frequently or on a regular basis, because their nervous systems are generally properly aligned, and don't require much adjusting, just the minor tweak from time to time. They also do not stim as obviously or as "oddly" as we do, because their sensory systems don't require that much input; very small amounts will do. Part of this also comes from the fact that society has deemed things like rocking, flapping, spinning, humming, etc. to be odd or deviant, and NTs typically care more about how others see them than autistics do, as you would expect from an instinctively social species.
Our stimming is more frequent and more intense because our sensory systems require more constant maintenance; it's rare for us to get through a situation smoothly and comfortably, without our internal systems becoming misaligned. We also tend to stim in more obvious and "socially unacceptable" ways, because we get quite significantly misaligned, and it takes more intense input to correct the problem.
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