Pretend play not possible for kids with asperger?

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14 Apr 2013, 5:30 pm

Among the warning signs of asperger, I read than children with AS have troubles with playing pretend. Actually there was written that "pretend play is not possible for kids with asperger". Is it always so? As a kid, I had troubles with many things, but playing pretend was not difficult to me at all. I liked pretend plays just the same way as kids usually do. Actually I used to play pretend even to the very old age, to my late teens. Even now as an adult, I would like to if I could. I enjoy pretend and fantasy.



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14 Apr 2013, 5:34 pm

I find that alot of thing you read about aspergers in the media ect is a load of **** I have no problem playing pretend and I know many other people with AS dont have a problem with creativity.


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14 Apr 2013, 5:45 pm

I feel like this criterion was originally meant to refer to the social aspect of pretend play and not to pretend play itself, but like other symptoms of mental conditions (especially of Asperger's) the vague wording allows interpretations to drift away from the intended meaning.



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14 Apr 2013, 5:47 pm

While I'm still going through the process of diagnosis, I do at least have a lot of aspie traits and thinking, and while I was a child I was very good at pretend play. Maybe too good? My parents worried that I wouldn't be able to tell what was real and what wasn't. I had some cassette tapes I made when I was about 9 of me playing by myself with my toys, and while the content is rather disturbing, it does show I knew how to do pretend play! ^.^


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14 Apr 2013, 5:49 pm

complete bull.I spent most of my childhood playing and off in space with my daydreams.



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14 Apr 2013, 5:50 pm

I wouldn't say it's not possible, though I would say it's more difficult in some aspects. I remember I'd play make-believe, but it was hard to do something completely original; I'd generally play something like Pokémon or PowerPuff Girls, whether or not it was as a video game or with dolls. (Actually, even today I have some trouble coming up with purely original fiction.) Thankfully, this general type of play seemed pretty popular, though I think I also had more of a tendency to try to correct what the other kids did 'wrong' (inaccurate to the series, at least from what I knew).

But yeah, maybe a little 'strained' or otherwise 'different,' but still possible.



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14 Apr 2013, 5:54 pm

I think that pretend play/imagination is a personality trait, not one of ASD or NT. It seems odd to mark that as a trait though when we are defined as living in our own bubble.



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14 Apr 2013, 6:03 pm

I actually took play/imagination to an extreme and often did it with other children. As long as I was in control, I could play fine with other children in imaginative play, and many other children were fully willing to let this happen because my ideas were so ridiculously good!

I made up elaborate fantasy worlds and characters out of whole cloth and modifications of television shows, fictional characters, and movies.

I somehow lost my imagination around age 13-14. It may have been due to the onset of chronic depression, or other things, perhaps.



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14 Apr 2013, 6:09 pm

As child, no pretend play, because no instinct for it.

As adult, no pretend play, because no interest in it.

Instead, Bejeweled Blitz!


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14 Apr 2013, 6:17 pm

Granted I haven't been diagnosed yet and will not be evaluated for another couple of weeks, but as a kid I was always off in my own little world using my imagination. Though, admittedly, the things that I would play were strange and often involved organizing things or moving things around sequentially (for lack of a better description).


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14 Apr 2013, 6:32 pm

I did pretend play. It was mostly alone. I had my own world, it primarily involved building great caverns and cave systems and pretending I was a prairie dog, or building houses for leprechauns, or building pretend box cars like the first book of the boxcar children. I also enjoyed pretend play with cooking with dirt and leaves. Or pretend play climbing trees and pretending to be an elf or a squirrel. Most of this was done by myself, others if involved were accessories.


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14 Apr 2013, 6:33 pm

It's not true. I spent most of my childhood in my imaginary world.



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14 Apr 2013, 6:33 pm

Kids with AS can't play pretend? Pfft... that's a pile of crap. When I was a kid, I made up my own worlds and animal species. I made a few elaborate characters as well. My sister and I would also roleplay with stuffed animals, dolls, figurines, etc. We even roleplayed the first two Harry Potter movies with beanie babies. I still make up characters, but they have very elaborate back stories that based on my life and other people. As you can tell, I had/have and overactive imagination.



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14 Apr 2013, 6:38 pm

I played lots of pretend.



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14 Apr 2013, 6:39 pm

Hopetobe wrote:
Among the warning signs of asperger, I read than children with AS have troubles with playing pretend. Actually there was written that "pretend play is not possible for kids with asperger". Is it always so? As a kid, I had troubles with many things, but playing pretend was not difficult to me at all. I liked pretend plays just the same way as kids usually do. Actually I used to play pretend even to the very old age, to my late teens. Even now as an adult, I would like to if I could. I enjoy pretend and fantasy.


It's rubbish. I did pretend play, and both my girls do pretend play. They play with dolls but not very often. I remember playing at being "mummy" with my dolls as a child.


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14 Apr 2013, 6:43 pm

I think they mean pretending with others. Like girls having a pretend tea party together. Kids acting out imaginary social situation exchanges with each other to develop social skills.