broombie wrote:
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Adults could tell the kid was a liar but I believed him because I'm gullible and can't tell someone is lying unless their story is far fetched. My mom knew he was lying about anything he said and she told me he didn't lie to me because I was naive, he lied because he lies and he does it to everyone, it had nothing to do with me.
He sounds pretty sick. Unfortunately, there are people like that out there.
My therapist told me he was sick and told me none of it was Asperger's and it was a mental illness he had. No kid tries to get their way by using force and violence especially aspies. My mom thought it was a component of it because I can understand that an autistic person might get upset when they are told no or when there is a change or when they can't do a routine they have but they don't start trying to kick your ass for it and start threatening you and breaking things until you give in. But when I was there, it was none of that I saw. Like if he wanted food, He would scream 'mom get me some food" and not even be nice about it and his mom will just give in and at 15 I thought, if my kid talked to me that way, I would ignore my kid until he asked me nicely and treated me with respect. But with him he would have just gone abusive if she did that with him. Plus if he needed her for anything he just screamed "Mom" and didn't even call her name nicely or shout in his normal tone of voice and he cussed at her. He even hit her too and I said to his mother "why not hot him back every time he does it" and she went "he is getting stronger than me so if I hit him back he will just do it more." I told my therapist all this and he said "that's not Asperger's, that is a mental illness, he was sick."
But he was diagnosed with AS at age seven but he also had ODD too. I think his main problem was ODD because that affected him more than anything. A few people online have suggested he had conduct disorder and according to wikipedia the difference between ODD and conduct disorder is kids with ODD are not aggressive towards people and animals and they are not destructive.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.