Diary ahead!
I just got an advice from a book (written by an aspie), to write, what is going to happen - a book of prophecies for the day.
The idea is, that you create your day. You set your mind for that day. You set your expectations for that day and subconciously arrange for it to happen.
If the author is nervous about something, giving a lecture, running a meeting, seeing someone etc. etc., she writes a "thank you for a good day" and describes all that went well:
"The weather was bright and people were filled with expectation. The Whole lecture was open and the debate aftewards was fantastic. In the evening, we had the best "girl"- party of all. Thank you friends".
By writing this ahead of her lecture, she had allready decided her own approach and thereby actually created the positive outcome. "Prophecies" like this have helped her lots of times. (Just imagine the energy of negative prophecies).
I´m going to learn from her.
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Femaline
Special Interest: Beethoven